What must I do?
My Girl Kissing. . .?
We were all out for a party last night.
We had a jol, drank beer etc etc.
Then there happened something. . . We all got home. We talked a bit further and then we went to sleep in the study!!. Me and my Chick and another chick. Then they thought I was sleeping. Then they started kissing and went to the bathroom, still thinking I'm asleep. Then this mormning I told them I know.
What must I do. Leave her, Scream at her or what!!
And know she also has a boyfriend so a threesome is out!!!
2006-12-14 19:39:44 · 11 answers · asked by Hotrod Hoender 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I f she really loves, you let her go free. And if she comes back then she really does love you.
2006-12-14 20:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Iron Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? She's bi? Or that she didn't tell you about this?
By me, the former is fine. The second is technically "cheating", even though it's not a guy she was with. She should have asked you if it was okay if she went and played with this other girl.
The strength of a relationship and the character of the persons in it is not determined by the issues they have, but by how they handle those issues together.
It sounds more to me like a simple miscommunication between you and her. She didn't tell you for some reason or another (maybe she thought you'd scream at her?). For some reason, her being honest with you about herself is not a safe thing to be. Or, she perceives it as such.
You need to approach it as such. If she thought you're accepting of her as she is, without judgement of her, than she would have asked you.
In true love, you attain freedom. When you love, you bring freedom to the person you love. If the opposite is true, it is not true love. You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free, not only outside but also inside.
Good luck. And listen more than you talk. You're hurt, but remember, she didn't tell you for a reason... she thought you'd react exactly like you are. She couldn't trust you. Show her she can.
2006-12-15 11:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go back to high school and pay more attention in English class.
2006-12-15 03:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must leave her if you cant stand knowing she was doing that or stay with her if you can deal with this situation...
It is not a good idea to scream at her or blame her at all..she's what she's and you cant change a thing by screaming at her..
2006-12-15 03:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing coming to ya polls and surveys. We'll get you some help
2006-12-15 03:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would stop drinking...cuz your story is real confusing and without the alcohol it might make sense
2006-12-15 03:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Join them!
2006-12-15 04:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. We still love you, so just let it go, dear.
2006-12-15 04:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow Dreamer. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oowww..that sounds gross to me...ditch her then baby..what are you waiting for?? you see she's been dumping on you..nyway why didnt you wake up that moment and slap them with your socks???
2006-12-15 03:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sneaky aren't they.
2006-12-15 03:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋