How often do you have sex? Please be honest. My hubby and I are averaging about once a month! We never seem to be on the same page. Am I alone??
2006-12-14 19:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my hubby and i have been together for 5 years +++ and unfortunately... we average like 2 or 3 the most in a month which is somehow sad... i'm only 26 and my hubby is 30... it's just that we have a business and we are always tired and busy... you're not alone... all i can say is people don't have time because they choose not to have time... if we keep on saying that we don't have time, then of course, we'll never have time for anything... i really wanna have a regular sex life but of course... i have to try... for now, it's just impossible... good luck to you... why don't you initiate.... just a thought... i'm also advising myself that.... just now... :-)
2006-12-14 19:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by nana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We've been together 14 yrs, married 12, he is 38 and I am 43 and we average every other day. I say average because we sometimes go a couple of days without, then make up for it.
Of course, we do not have any children at home, my daughter is 22 and lives elsewhere, I don't work outside our home.
I don't think there is really a right or wrong amount of sex, it just depend on your circumstances, and how you feel.
But if you want more and he doesn't, try asking him to talk with you about it, sometimes it can also be caused by a medical reason....
2006-12-15 03:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That number is very very low. Twice a week would have been average. Find out if your hubby is having any kind of problem physically or being stressed out in work or other family matters.
Sometime, it could be psychological. Be patient with him and help him where possible. Seeing your family doctor could help.
Good Luck
2006-12-15 04:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unfortunately you are not alone and am in the same boat you are, am married almost 6 years and it seems like the longer you are married the less sex you have. my wife and i used to have sex 2or3 times a day and then it go to like 1 a day then 3 like 3 times a week then like ones a week. sometimes twice, i guess that is the part of the married life the our friends don't talk to us about it when they are bragging about been married
2006-12-15 08:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not alone - my husband and I were together about 2 years before it went to almost never - then they hear people bragging about 3&4 times a day doesn't help (and I really don't believe those people anyway
2006-12-15 03:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have sex maybe twice a month, when we were dating it was a few times a week and we tried different things. I wonder why this happens to alot of couples.
2006-12-15 04:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I were together for over 6 years, and we had sex every day (except for "at that time of the month")
2006-12-15 09:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently separated from my hubby, but that sounds about like we were when together. I got to feeling crowded by him or something.
2006-12-15 03:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have been married 10 years now and we do it 3 times a week (at least).
but a year ago we use to be like you guys, but our kids were younger and needed us all the time and we were exhausted...and then we spiced things up a little in the bedroom, like role-playing, erotic stories, masturbation...
2006-12-15 04:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady and I have been together for 45 years. Although I won't tell you how often we enjoy making love, because, frankly, it's none of your business, I will tell you that I find her as alluring and desirable as I did 45 years ago.
2006-12-15 05:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋