I'm am a bi male, but every once in a while I'll tell new females that I meet that i'm gay--we get that "gay guy, female bond thing going" and then I sex her up. Its happened twice, the women never really seem to mind at the end of the thing. I don't see the harm in it and in fact I think it is a healthy way for a bisexual male to meet women for relationships since, bi males are about the most screwed sect there is for having long term rel. with either sex. I mean think about it, if i tell a girl on the third or fourth date or whenever, before we have sex that I'm bi, that usually ends it right there. If I wait to tell her at some point after we have sex, that usually ends it as well. The two women that thought i was "gay" and then we had sex, both wanted to continue the relationship.
2006-12-14 19:09:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Bi is not a smokescreen for being queer. Gay is a smokesceen for being bi. You don't know how many "gay" men that i've run into that have sexual feelings for women. What about supposedly "gay" men that come out of the closet after 25 years of being with women and have like seven children. Those are bi men, they are not gay. A truly gay man can no more have sex with a women than Tommy Lee could have sex with a man. The fact is most of us are bisexual somewhat and there are actually the minority who are totally gay or totally straight.
2006-12-14 19:29:39 · update #1
Hell yeah it works. Every "fag hag" secretly wants to have sex with her gay guy best friend--the problem is that he not able to have sex with her for obvious reasons. The problem is, is that you have to be able to pull it off. If you're expecting to get laid at straight bar by telling some babe you're gay its probably not going to work. I can do it (not saying at a straight bar), because i'm bi and know something of gay culture, what i'm saying is that i can convincingly tell the girl that i think that the guy we just saw has a cute butt and be sincere about it, becuase--well i do think he has a cute butt. Establish the rappore as her gay friend, and then screw the hell out of her.. Think about it---your're putting paint on your hag's toenails or combing her hair having an intimate conversation. How friggin easy is it to sex her up from there--its not hard at all believe me.
2006-12-14 19:49:43 · update #2
Sweetie, do what makes you happy =)
2006-12-14 19:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Does that "I'm gay thing really work?" I'm not gay, but I wish I knew this trick along time ago. I'd be a great way to get out of the relationship too. After you knock the bottom out of it a few times you could just say, "I decided I'm going to go back to the gay thing"
2006-12-14 19:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by baloneycurtains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's wrong, you're starting off a realationship with a lie. Lies are always bad!
If you can't be honest with someone you don't deserve to be with them.
Why do you find it so hard to be honest and simply say you're a bi-male?
That just shows what you lack as a person if that's how you "hook up" with women. What a coward.
2006-12-14 19:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are not the only one. As soon as you tell a woman that you are gay they try to find the way to "turn you back" It so funny to me cuz, they think they really can. LOL Aint nothing wrong with telling half truth...LOL. Enjoy your life
2006-12-14 20:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi is an excuse and smoke screen for being queer. Don't lie to people. It makes you less of a person. Have a nice holiday.
2006-12-14 19:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure you tell them plenty of other lies too. But as long as you view them as pieces of meat to "sex up" I guess honesty would be a pretty foreign concept, huh?
2006-12-15 01:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...nothing based on lies or deceit is good...not a great way to get to know someone..i am a bisexual female and would never lie about my sexuality...infact i am very proud of it...best of both worlds...lies are BAD tho...xxxx
2006-12-14 19:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
heloooooooooooooo
is life to u all about sex?????
dont u have anything else to do except dating women nd blah blah.....??????????
2006-12-14 20:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by priya t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you're both happy..then go for it.
2006-12-14 21:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sick. Just stick to one damn thing, Male or Female. "Bisexual" pfft...
2006-12-14 19:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by toxotos 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋