What is husband's duty in wife's menstruation period?

Question

hi im gonna get married in couple of months i like to know what is the husbands role in the menstruation period of his wife because i heard women get stomach pain in those day, as i never get in touch with girls i dont know wat to do in that time. Anyone help me and make me an perfect husband.

Answer 1

awwwww thats some genuine concern...thats so cute....well if u wanna kno sumthing important then ill tell u this...dont ever make ur wife feell uncomfortable round u when she has it...its normal and thats the reason huan beings come into this world so u should pretty much venerate her for this and be open and cool bout it k? and not only will u deal with cramps u may deal with PMS---some ppl get it some dont---thats moodswings so take it easy during that time but dont be uncomfortable or try to hard to be the perfect husband that can be irritating...and just to let u kno men go thru 28 day cycles too except its not menstrual..its only inside---so they can have moodswings and aftr living with someone for long somehow it has been proven that their moodswings happen at the same time---weird huh the body really is a complex thing...
as for a husbands duty treat this thing like its normal and when uhave a daughter dont shirk away from ur responsibility---when ur daughter gets it go and congratulate her and say things like this is perfectly normal and means ur all grown up...just let her kno ur by her side...women/girls want nothing but love and understadning and most importantly respect...dont be other typical daddies who pretend this never happened and dont be embarraseed or awkward...u may not kno the details of course ucant explain to her like her mom can but at least u can let er kno she doesnt have to embarassed in front of her dad or hide it like its shameful...
so i just taught u to be a good husband plus a good father...good luck with ur marriage and i have a feeling ull make a good husband since ur concerned and GOD BLESS

ps--women dont like their periods to be trned into a big deal its not like theyre pregnant or somthing---dont over do it wit with the heating pads an midol---she has taken care of herself since she was eleven and doesnt need a guy acting like he knows best...also everyoe is tlking bout either sex or treating her as though she pregnant---i say act normal u should help her the same way all the time----i kno id be pretty frieked out if a guy did that to me

Answer 2

Well the day I see a perfect husband is the day I start to sign up for classes. LOL
I've learnt over the years that there really is not much you can do but be there and try to undersatnd her pain, and know that it is real. You can offer her help where it is needed. My wife (although not every month) Does go through this pain. Be there to offer her what ever you can to help, even if that means holding the hot water bottle to her back at 3 am in the morning to help ease the pain. By the way, congrats on the engagement

Answer 3

I assume that you are not a westerner.

When your wife is on her period she will probably be irritable. The main thing is try not to piss her off. There is nothing to be gained by pointing out that it is her period, but you should try to keep track of when it's coming for your own safety (every ~4 weeks). Heating pad is good. Midol is basically ibuprofen and caffeine. The caffeine is to alleviate water retention, and the ibuprofen is for the cramps. So generic motrin and a cup of coffee or tea is about as good.

Some women don't have very bad periods but for others it can be quite severe, like a debilitating illness.

Answer 4

Hi, Shiva's answer is partly correct and partly not. You cannot visit any temples or participate in any rituals such as doing Havan, Pooja or fasting etc till 5 days from the start day of your period. Our scriptures strictly prohibits this for 5 days and Shiva, Devi temple is also included in that rule, and further more Vaishno devi is a Shakti-peeth (which are places of worship consecrated to the goddess Shakti or Sati,) so you should not go there during periods.

Answer 5

pls marry me?
she might get quite confusingly emotional, try to understand when faced with those hard three or five days (depending on her flow)
if she's used to pains, rub her where it hurts and massage her... find out about products that she can use for thast cycle.
dont try getting her into the whole sex thing... unless she feels it

i know, kind of hard, but it will keep the both of you happy for those days, and more to come.
i often get a ferocious sex appetite after my periods, especially after the first class treatmnt i've had from my boyfriend...

even better still, ask her what she needs and if you can help during that time...

good luck and good love.

Answer 6

Aw, you're so sweet. The best thing you can do is make sure she has plenty of Midol (painkiller for during your period) and that she gets to lie down when she wants to. And if she asks you to get something for her (EVEN TAMPONS) just do it. She may be irritable at the time but once it's over she'll be sure to thank you in more ways than one.

Answer 7

Get her a heating pad, chocolates (some women crave chocolates during this time), and massage her abdomin...putting a bit of pressure ..... when you message...message in a downward motion...this will help the blood flow which will help the cramps become mild. Just be understanding to when she feels emotional.

Answer 8

It's called cramps and PMS ( Pre Menstrual Syndrome). The Best thing you can do for her while she is uncomfortable is to ask her JUST ONE TIME what she would like you to do to help her be more comfortable (most times its just by leaving her alone).
DO NOT pester her or keep asking how she feels, etc.
Its like, if you got kicked full-force in the crotch and she ran up to you asking if it hurts and if youre okay.

Answer 9

Read the bible....Just being her husband and not leaving her should be good enough....Ask her when shes not on it what you can do, if she does not give you an answer than find your own things to do during that time.

Answer 10

If not painful, you can also very well have sex and enjoy. Contrary to the usual belief, you can have sex and fun, no harm in it.
It is a normal physiological phenomena and nothing to be so much hyped about.