honestly i never know weather to smile because were friends or cry because thats all will ever be . . . should I tell that person (even though ther dating some oneelse) or not risk the best friendship I've ever had ? ? ?
2006-12-14 18:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by ogarg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you dated that person already 5 times and things haven't worked out move on. Its a surprise and also amazing that you are still friends.Somethings aren't ment to be you just have to face it. Just for now look to that person as a friend. Dont tell the person how you feel yet because they are dating. But if you want the quick aprouch i guess you can tell them but you may put each other in aqward position. Just act like normal best friends would act sensing i'm sure you dont want to risk your friendship. Sooner or later that person would see (if they feel the same for you) what they were looking for was right there next to them. So dont rush anything patience is virtue. And also maybe you to are not on the same level at the moment (many people go through life changes) later on you may be more compatible. Good luck.
2006-12-14 19:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are just not meant to be together other than as good friends. If you've tried 5 times to date and it didn't spark anything or you didn't mesh then save the friendship and move on. You will always have him as a friend, but you need to be fair to your next date and put your thoughts of a relationship with your friend behind you before finding another fellow. Otherwise you could end up hurting more people.
2006-12-15 02:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should have the best of both worlds
a Friendship and a Relationship.An undivided single part of two
2006-12-15 02:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by chaosphere187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the feelings and move on. Its not worth your waiting and feelings. Its like hitting an egg against a stone.
2006-12-15 02:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 times! It's time to move on. Life is short and there are to many fish in the sea to be stuck on someone.
2006-12-15 02:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Chetaraparker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try again until you feel physically sick...as in you want to barf or gringe in a negative way about that person.
2006-12-15 02:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by gotham158 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
correct your spellings first and then just be friends with him he's not made 4 u
2006-12-15 02:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by tiya_ahuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to quit otherwise ~~~ you know !
2006-12-15 03:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he/her is not ur charme...be positive..there r many others out there who can be ur spark.....just like me
2006-12-15 03:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by mysterious girl this year!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋