together until after the holiday is over. I choose not to, I would like suggestions to how I could make it clearer on my wishes.
2006-12-14 17:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A friend who is highly educated had to deal with a problem like yours last year. It was difficult for him to do because she was possessive and controlling, but, he remained firm in his decision not to see her. They were not compatible in many different areas and it was an increasing strain to be with her. When she would call, he would keep the conversation short telling her that this was something he had to do. He knew he still had feelings for her because of their past relationship and felt sadness, but ,he also knew it simply was not going to work. Now, she is engaged to someone else and he is happy. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated when you know the relationship is not what you need. Remain true to what you know is right and do not allow yourself to become engaged in any manipulative "games" she may try to win you back. I hope you have a happy Christmas.
2006-12-14 18:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now! Things will not get any better after the holidays. The only way to make it clear to her is to leave. The longer you stay the harder it will be to leave.
2006-12-15 06:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister had the crap beaten out of her by her husband, he told her PLEASE forgive me she did, a few months later he started to check the miles on her car, and the history of her cellphone, whenever there was to many mile (more than from home to work and back) he would tell her she was a slut. Then he made her throw away all of her clothing that was tight or even slightly revealing, she tried to leave him and he told her he would kill himself if she left so she stayed. This kind of behavior continued, one day they had a fight, he slapped her around. Later that evening as she was sleeping he put a pillow over her face, she began to struggle. What saved her is that she was a crosswords junkie and their was a pencil on the night stand. She couldn't see it but she remembered it was there and she fumbled for it, she found it and stabbed him in the throat. It broke inside. He alomost died. The Moral of the Story LEAVE before it gets out of hand
2006-12-15 01:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by dicksee87015 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you really not want a Christmas present from her? no that sounds kind of cold, just tell her you're fed up and unless she changes in an instant you are done.
2006-12-15 01:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by El Uno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. leave. end her control. that's what this latest attempt is--a control move to keep you until after the holidays...
2006-12-15 01:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, she's controlling you. Yet when you made the decision to break it off, you go to the bargaining table to renegotiate with her. I'd say you're right, she is controlling, and you're a butt licker!
Tell her to piss off.
2006-12-15 03:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you didnt want to be in an controlling relationship and move on.
2006-12-15 11:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by SKITTLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give her a last chance n to urself too....all the best...i hope for the best for u...God Bless....
tell me a thing are u an indian?
2006-12-15 07:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her when she tries to get you back. She will get the hint eventually.
2006-12-15 14:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not own your body or soul only you or your higher power does.
2006-12-15 01:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Namaste 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋