i have not been feeling well for a while and i have been so angry at everything and medicines makes me sick and what not...i have been so moody and snappy and stuff..u know i used to trust that i have greatest friends as i get atleast one call everyday from one or the other friend and they talk for hrs with me..actually they go on and on abt whats not rt in their life and stuff...not that thats what happens always..but most of it....but since 2 months when i am doing so bad ...excpet for one everyone behaved so distant...ph calls kept coming but not even one person could even relate to what i was going through...they didn't even care..thats what i felt...i was sharing how tough it has been..and stuff and they seemed so disintersted...it really hurts to knwo at this point of time that i have no friend who would die for..thank god that i have my hubby and my god who gives me what i need...
but is that what i blessed with ??what happened?
2006-12-14 17:04:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is a saying rt..when u die if u have 5 friends u lived a great life...hmm what now...
5 yrs back i was sick too and i had these graet friends and they stood by me..they even gave me blood when i was in need..most of all they gave me their love,strength and courage and they were with me...its been so crazy after we grow up and get married everything has changed..i am sure if they were there with me rt nwo they would ahve been with me...but its sad thinsg changed ..but i miss them and i keep them in my prayers all the time...
2006-12-14 17:07:05 · update #1
Friends don't change they just get busy in their lives as u'v got busy in yours. Just thank god that he has blessed you with a nice hubby.
2006-12-15 19:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you have anything to worry about. i dont believe the saying "friends come and friends go". i went through some hard times once, and my best friend in the whole world turned her back on me. she didnt even care that i was going through a hard time. she was soo wrapped up in her own life, that she couldnt see that i needed her at the time...anyway, my point is, when we are depressed and sick, and we want our friends to be there for us, sometimes they dont know how to be there for us. they feel bad, because they dont know how to help, and rather than say "i'm sorry, i cant do anything to make you feel better", i've found that people tend to back off for a while, because they dont want to hurt us by saying there is nothing they can do. or sometimes, they dont talk much when we are hurting, because they cant relate to what we are feeling. if you'r friends really care about you, and have been friends with you for a long time, just hang in there. they will come around. if they dont come back around, they are still your friends....dont lose touch with them. burning bridges with friends can be a horrible thing. hang in there! i know its tough, but hang in there!
2006-12-15 01:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u tried ringing them?perhaps they are finding it hard to know what to say.or maybe u seem distant to them.if theyve been good friends its always worth talking to them,and even if that doesnt work atleast u know u tried!in the mean time try to stay positive,focus on the good things in life n share a smile with everyone u c
2006-12-15 01:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by catherine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a natural thing friends do change after a while this happened with me also before marriage everybody stick together but after they all changed dont feel bad about it
2006-12-15 01:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by riti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should make urself clear that when one is married they hav lotz of responsibilities, i guess ur frnds r married....i dont think it will be possible for anybody to give thier time when they have thier family.....indeed u must be thankfull that they will atleast call u up......be satisfied with it
2006-12-15 07:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by nida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call them !!you need that and may be they don't know howmuch some things are hard on you
2006-12-15 03:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋