ok i fell in love in a great guy and we dated off and on mostly on though for a year i thought he was the one for me and then me and his friend talked a lot and he started to like me even though we never met i liked him too then he like kinda forced me to dump his friend and i dated him instead and then he dumped me because he found out that i still liked my ex then i dated my ex again and then we dated a while and he started treating me badly and hit me once but it didn't hurt, then i said harsh things to him and he dumped me and i dated the other guy agian and we have been dating a while of time but he treats me badly too, like me and my best friend are always together no matter what and he holds me and won't let me go near her but when he wants me he won't let go and when i want him he leaves and i still am in love with the other guy and people think i am crazy because i still talk to my ex and they think i am making him think i want him but i secretly do. any advice
Tough Love <3
2006-12-14 16:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by toughlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude, these guys treat you like ish! Respect yourself girl! this guy hit you once and it didnt hurt? whats to say he wont hit you again and it will hurt? Seriously, this is a bad situation, get out of it
2006-12-14 16:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have some problems. Why would you want guys that hit you (even if it didn't hurt that bad) or guys that won't let you be around your friends? And FYI you might care for 2 guys at the same time but you don't love 2 guys at the same time. If you truly love someone there can't and won't be the thought of someone else in a romantic way. I'd say you don't love either. Leave both of them alone.
2006-12-15 00:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
I'm not saying this to be cruel. You have some issues that you need to deal with before you can have a healthy relationship. I suggest that you get into some kind of therapy before you end up a battered girlfriend. What you think of as love is just dependency on an unfit guy. Back off the both of them. Get your head right and Mr. Right will come along.
2006-12-15 00:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of these guys have been violent toward you ,and are possessive of you . it does not sound like a good situation for you, you need to take a step back from your life and look at it from the point of view of a stranger. what would you advise someone else to do in this situation?if you want a serious relationship, then i would stay away from violent or possessive men - the longer you are in a relationship the worse it will get!.
2006-12-15 00:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by chocaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think of it this way. if you were one of those guys how would you feel? ok now that you know how you would feel, think about which one you would less like to hurt. either way someone is gettin hurt. just pick the lesser of two evils. otherwise ur just the type of person that if you were a guy all the girls would call you a ********.
2006-12-15 00:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump both of them
learn to love yourself
then you can start dating again!
2006-12-15 00:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool.
Loving both of you is breaking all the rules...
2006-12-15 00:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
S*** or get off the pot. Choose one or the other. You can't have both.
2006-12-15 00:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by lord_greatmane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋