I guy my husband works with is always sending him porn emails....and not always like ha ha funny joke type things..that might not be so weird. But this guy just will send pic of girls masturbating or bending over ...just random gross stuff. And ONLY to my husband...is that weird?
2006-12-14 16:04:22 · 17 answers · asked by E 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know that to some extent..all guys "like" porn. I have never caught my husband looking at it or anything like that and he always deletes what this guy sends. It just seems strange to me that this guy feels the need to pass it along to my husband......l guess I am worried that if he looks at it enough he will start liking it more or think that is what I should be like or something. It does not help that I am pregnant and sensitive right now...but knowing he looks at that makes me NOT what to have sex with him.
2006-12-14 16:13:37 · update #1
Also I am nowwhere near being a prude either.
2006-12-14 16:15:08 · update #2
First of all, pregnant women are wonderful. They have a warm glow about them and they're really sexy, if you ask me. So don't stop having sex with your husband. You'll just deprive both of you of some nice experiences.
Men like to look at women. That much is true. I have a friend who sends me stuff and to be honest with you, it does nothing for me. But if he sent me photos of naked women who were just average looking women, I think I might enjoy that. I honestly don't care much for the standard, stock stuff out there with the lipstick, makeup, and bitchy looks. I don't like high heels or fake breasts and I don't like stick figure women. If I'm going to look at a woman, I want to see some curves, not a boyish figure.
So if your husband is anything like me, he'd much rather look at you naked than at these photos he's getting via e-mail from his friend. Pregnant women are wonderful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
If you're feeling insecure about your husband looking at pictures his friend is sending, just put in some "naked time" with your husband and I think you'll see that you'll be far more interesting to him than a damned photo of some sleazy woman he got in an e-mail.
As for your husband's friend -- not all guys can talk on much of an in-depth level. The best this guy can manage is to send photos of naked women. That's just how some guys are. No big deal. I've got friends like that too and like your husband, I just delete the stuff. Not impressed.
Photos can't compete with you. You're warm and soft and I assume he likes you. That's hard for a photo to compete with. Have some fun with it. And as I recall, sex during pregnancy can be a real turn on for both man and wife.
I think you've got nothing to worry about.
2006-12-14 16:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My lover says that's normal. That guys like naked girls and would share the pictures with eachother. Unless your husband tells him not to send the stuff, it's normal. If your husband says, "don't send this to me" the other guy would be an asshole.
From my own observations of the males of our species, I'd have to agree. It's normal for men to share pictures of 'hot girls' with eachother. I do think that thinking that sex, masturbation and porn is gross is abnormal though. Maybe you should seek some counselling? Having a positive attitude towards sex, only makes it that much more enjoyable. Remember, women are sexual beings too!
2006-12-14 16:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us guys send each other porn all the time, it's just what we do, I am sorry to say. However he should be a little more sensitive to you given you are pregnant. I am almost positive that he doesnt think any less of you but it just a boy thing to send this stuff around. All the best with the baby!!
2006-12-14 16:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird. I am a male, and so far I guess that that guy is looking for a buddy that enjoys the same photos... men don't do that, in general. Could be bi or gay, but he is definitely weird. As your husband shares this strange experience with you he obviously has a similar impression, so he might tell that guy politely to stop it.
2006-12-14 16:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy probably has no friends or else he would have more interesting things to do.If your husband is looking at the porn e-mails would you class that as weird.
2006-12-14 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by hazel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this guy thinks that your husband is really his only friend good enough for it. Maybe he feels everyone else feels like you do,he thinks that your husband actually does like it, your husband needs to tell him to stop or nothing will change.
2006-12-14 16:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has probably expressed an interest in receiving them. Tell him to block the guys address if he doesn't want that stuff.
2006-12-14 16:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by AirborneSaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no E u just have a pig of a husband and he has an *** 4 a friend first of all he should have more respect for u and ur husband and ur husband more for u.
2006-12-14 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by kockstrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't alone. My wife thought it was weird that my friend always sent me porn. It's not weird, but if it bothers you that you r husband views porn you should talk to him about it.
2006-12-14 16:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not weird. If you husband hasn't put a stop to it, he is obviously enjoying it and is in on it with the guy.... no matter what he tells you.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-14 16:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋