ok, my husband is coming home from iraq, what would you consider to be the best way of seducing him all night long on our date and what way to really lite his fire after the lights go out?
any and all good ideas welcome, thanks guys.
one guy just helping out another, you know?
i really just want to blow his mind...
2006-12-14 16:01:24 · 20 answers · asked by Stacy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you are intimate with him, assure him that he is safe. The physical desire will be mutually strong, but the nature of the desire is important to check out. Cook for him, service him, and make him feel special. Feed his senses with things that are familiar and pleasurable. Massage his feet, his hands, his arms and his back. Make him feel as if he died and went to heaven. You are a good woman and wife to ask this question.
2006-12-14 16:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm very happy your guy is coming home from Iraq. I know the 2 of you have been separated for quite a long time. Knowing this, I think you need to approach this home coming in a way that will kind of ease the transition....get to know each other for a little while...sit down and talk over coffee or whatever you like. Catch up a little...THEN.....you in a sexy little Teddy might get things in high gear. Good luck and happy reunion.
2006-12-15 00:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think about the fact that a trip back from Iraq is not an easy one. Its a plane ride that would make you crazy. He is probably going to be exhausted. A man would rather do the all night thing when we are rested up so we may step up to the challenge. You might be setting yourself up for disapointment as well as setting him up to feel like he can't please you. How about the pyshcological problems he might be experiencing. If you want to be a good wife, be aware of the fact he is more than a penis. If you want to be a tiger in bed, dirty talk is usually a sure thing.
2006-12-15 01:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also not a guy, but when my husband came home from deployment all either of us did was stay in bed! We had no worries cause the baby was with relatives. He didn't care about much special treatment except that I was not thinking about anything but sex with him(as that was also on his mind). If you want to do nice stuff, keep it simple and have it in hand when you first see him or keep it in the bedroom cause he'll want to be nowhere else. For even nicer setting, get a hotel and order room service for all meals that are available while you are checked in!! Have fun!!!
2006-12-15 00:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Swirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plan on starting at a nice dark quiet resturant,wear a skirt and no panties , take his hand and gently & descretly and softly touch what you want him to have , then with your other hand return the favor by touching what you want from him, then walk away and look back smiling. by the time you do get the lights out you will both be so hot you won't need any suggestions. this may end up being a quick date. don't order desert,it will be served later.
2006-12-15 01:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it won't take much, just be there and spend time together. Don't overwhelm him with family visits and running around, just spend time with him and don't worry if he seems a little off balance. It usually takes a little while before couples who have been apart for a long time get back in the swing of things.
2006-12-15 00:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does he enjoy most in bed with you?
Give it to him when he returns. Or you can play roles.
Dress up like an arab lady. Don't wear anything esle underneath. Surprise him while he is lying in bed. Come out of the bathroom and do some sexy steps.
I believe the best way is to do more foreplay than he could ever imagine. The arabic delight would be sensual!
2006-12-15 00:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ALL NIGHT LONG?? give him a break - he is coming back from hard work, needs some rest.
see how he reacts to the initial attempts and be flexible. be ready for "honey not tonight - i m too tired"
best of luck
2006-12-15 00:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by gumnaam33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why turn the lights out. Dim lighting, scented candles, bubble bath, champagne, no telephone and especially no relatives, and you. What else could he want?
2006-12-15 00:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by jack w 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"on our date"? You are going OUT on the day he comes home? Hmmm....questionable...
If I were him, I would want to go straight home and, um, hole up for a day or so....have chinese takeout in the fridge for when we get hungry, coupla bottles chilled champagne....and I would want you to have got plenty of rest before, so you would have lots of energy and not need to sleep a lot!
2006-12-15 00:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by silentnonrev 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋