I like to play NHL Hockey for PS2 with my husband. I am not that great but I have got better. Everytime I am winning my husband pauses the game and ups his aggression level to the max. I jokingly said he was cheating and he totally flipped out on me and called me a b@*tch . It's not just this, it's many many other things. It's like walking on eggshells with him. I am so tired of being treated this way. I don't know what would be more benificial..marriage therapy or anger managment. I'll take any advice.
2006-12-14 15:59:47 · 10 answers · asked by Jem 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yup. Issues it is! Don't overlook this either. It could always get worse.
2006-12-14 16:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
both, but i would do the anger management first. my ex had serious anger issues and the funny thing is that he already took anger management, worse than that is that it helped him. he was horrible but it was much worse before he got to the classes. i thought i could handle it, but there were times when we got physical and it scared the living sh*t out of me. it just got worse and worse every time he got mad(which was a lot). and you need marriage counseling but i think it would be a better idea to hold off on that, and you know he's going to get mad because of that and it would be nice for him to have some kind of tools to hold his anger in check.
2006-12-15 00:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, his anger and issues started way before you and have nothing to do with you. But they're there; you just get to decide how you want to handle it. You can get in his face when he gets in yours, and tell him to knock it the F off, and risk getting hit. Or, you can make sure he knows its a deal breaker and you WILL leave if he keeps it up. Or suggest anger mgmt or therapy. But don't "let this go" as it'll probably get worse.
2006-12-15 00:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by the little you have said l think your husband could do with a few anger management lessons !! Your husband should be proud of you for your efforts not calling you names. Perhaps he is a little jealous of you also. Speak to him about his hurtful ways and maybe he will see his faults and change. I wish you lots of luck and patience. Merry Xmas
2006-12-15 00:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both anger managment and therapy are in order here. If he doesn't get a handle on his "RAGE"( and that is what it really is) things will only get worse.
2006-12-15 00:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY SIMPLY DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT PLAY THAT OS ANY OTHER GAME WHERE HE EXHIBITS THESE ANGER ISSUES. HE PROBABLY WAS ONE OF THOSE KIDS WHO WAS ALWAYS ALLOWED TO WIN. DESPITE HIS AGE HIS MIND THINKS THAT HE'S SUPPOSED TO. THE ALTERNATIVE IS TO ALLOW HIM TO WIN AND GET WHAT YOU WANT. DESPITE AND IRREGARDLESS OF THE RESULT YOU CAN USE THIS SITUATION TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. JUST DONT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT.
GOD BLESS
2006-12-15 00:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by thewindowman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it sounds like anger issues, and he could benefit from anger management, and you could both benefit from marriage couseling.
2006-12-15 00:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.........ANGER MANAGMENT
its him, don't worry to much,
a bad temper can get in the way, but don't worry to much, with the right amount of time, help and support, he'll get over it
2006-12-15 00:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger management definately. but he probably won't agree.
2006-12-15 00:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need both... but the moment he threatens you, DIVORCE.
2006-12-15 00:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋