What would be some good ways to change my ways and become sweeter and kinder and nicer?
2006-12-14 15:56:49 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well think before you speak , that can save you a load of trouble. Treat others as YOU want to be treated. Put yourself in their shoes before you comment. GOOD LUCK !
2006-12-14 16:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by srstephens 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow an actual question that i can answer from experience! i used to be a hella ***** to everyone and no one really talked to me except for my friends I already had because i think they were intimidated by me...but what if you were in their position..? you wouldnt want that to happen to you...but i know that people like the feeling of knowing that they are better than someone else.the way that i got over that, is if you look at the people outside of the people you usually hang around with and think about how some of their lives are and just be grateful for all the things you have and be glad that you dont have to go through some of the things that many people do have to go through....
2006-12-15 00:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C.J. only someone who was deeply caring and sincere would care enough to want to change in the first place - so I say you should do nothing - you have already proved you are neither a smartass or a b***** and anyone who called you that is just projecting their own faults on you.
2006-12-15 00:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Michael Darnell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is good luck with that. No matter how hard you try your personality is going to remain the same. You may be able to put on an act but it will just stress you out. I know this from personal experience.
2006-12-15 00:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just think before you speak, that has helped me loooooaaaaaadddddds. Seriosly say whatever it is 2 or 3 times to yourself then by the time its over, you wont say it wrong.
2006-12-14 23:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by ohhmyluckystars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to take some classes for your problems and see a psychiatrist (counselor) to help you solve your behavior problems. It will take some time because everyone knows you don't change overnight.
Happy Holidays!
2006-12-15 00:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by J RO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooo thats hard....try some personal counseling with your friends, and listen to what they have to say, even if its mean or it offends you, keep and open mind and know they are only trying to help you by giving examples of what people dont like about you so that you know not to do it, remember, listen, be cooperative, and dont get mad at the person trying to help you
2006-12-15 00:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by jim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you open mouth insert foot. No really I had to count to 1 to 10 and that help me from getting in trouble with my bad *** mouth.....
2006-12-15 00:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change?? Some people actually enjoy those traits in a woman.
2006-12-14 23:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by shez_a_maneater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to? Women like that are the ones who are promoted at work! And you have the bonus of not having to suck dick to get promoted You did it on merit
2006-12-14 23:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋