2006-12-14 15:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to go on with your life because there had to be a pile of issues to cause a divorce after giving up most of your life. This is known from experience (31 yrs then divorce), so it's not hear say. The pain won't stop for a long time, but going backward will only cause more of it and stress. Make yourself busy by doing things that you failed to do over those 36 yrs that crossed your mind. This has helped me tremendously. Say your prays to God to give you the strength needed to carry on your life toward a better happiness.
2006-12-14 16:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to "reflame" your "marriage"? After 36 years if you haven't resolved your problems, a few more years won't fix it. Go on with your life. It can be lonely, I know, but sometimes being alone is the better option. Besides, you may meet someone else who can appreciate you.
2006-12-14 16:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Doug R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
inform you you like her and desire to save the marraige and demand that she enter into counseling with you as a circumstance of your persevering with to 'help' her. pass to counseling in many cases, 2-thrice a week. this could counter the undesirable suggestion and get her speaking to you approximately her emotions. For the two one in each of you, that's incredibly good he hear issues from an exterior expert rather of from one yet another. i wish you learn that your spouse does desire to restoration the marriage, yet does not be responsive to how. you will in all likelihood additionally learn some issues which you do in comparison to listening to, so be arranged for that. i will maintain my palms crossed that this time next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days you 2 are returned below an identical roof, having the two made some perplexing very own variations, and that the marriage is greater effective than ever. (sure, this is going to disprupt your existence & activity and fee a kit deal. pass on area-time in case you could desire to, same as in the journey that your spouse have been having a severe ailment and needed countless care. now's the time to tutor her that your marriage is precedence #a million.)
2016-12-18 13:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to jacka$$ above - you're not too old for anything, but I would move on and not dwell on the marriage - especially if your spouse is not willing to get back together with you.
2006-12-14 16:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there was any fire in this marriage there would have been no divorce, you might ask what would it take to get things worked out, and then make a decision
2006-12-14 16:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
36 years, yeah thats probly your fault, give up, your probly too old for anything new to develop
2006-12-14 15:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by jim b 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move on..
2006-12-14 15:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋