Unlucky...........over the last fifteen years my luck has been so bad...?

Question

and it is just getting worse and worse especially with regard to health, family and finance. I just can't seem to get back up again, it seems the more I try the worse it gets.

I have prayed for help but got none, I'm seriously contemplating help from the dark side, I'm that desperate.

Any tips out there for changing my bad luck, the worry is making me ill.

By the dark side, I did'nt mean crime, I ment black magic!

Answer 1

It is the sad case here that asked about christmas dinner.
dont be pesemistic all the time look on the bright side of life.
it's a pitty that you seem to be riddled with bad luck some people are, but they should make the most of the good stuff that comes their way.
With regards to money, don't spend it on things you don't need, getting loans will help in the short term but take ages to pay off and you end up paying back more than you borrowed. They say money is the root of all evil.
If you don't have money this has a knock on affect on to everything else and can get you depressed which can cause problems with your health and family, i have been there i know.

Answer 2

Yep. I sympathise with you. I too have had so much bad luck for years on end and it has made me wonder if there is justice or a God in this world. I have had many arguments with God and I would like to meet him and ask him why he did all this to me.This year has topped other years and it has been non stop one thing after another I got to the point that I wanted to finish everything once and for all and then I started thinking of the effects it would have on my family. I now push things to the back of my mind and try to deal with one thing at a time. Its tough going and I dont know whether I will get there or not. :( I try to make jokes of what happens but inside it doesnt wash with me though I would never turn to crime.

Answer 3

"Bad Luck" or Good "Opportunity". From a religious point of view the suffering makes us stronger and prepares us for the future. From one person to another who has seen his share of bad luck, most of the time we seem to find ourselfs struggling and no matter how hard we try it seems that nothing is going right. Will Smith has a new movie out that is a good example of turning it around. I have and continue to go down that road of having a hard time, I have learned to look for other ways to solve the problems. Don't call it bad luck, I seem to look at it this way; If i am headed in a direction that God does not want me on the path seems to get harder, but if I change direction then things tend to get better. Hope that helps

Answer 4

Do you want a competition?
Five years ago started a business, three years ago lost £10.000 due to a waster missus, two and a half years ago had a physical breakdown cause I pushed myself too hard for too long, one and a half years ago lost the business and almost my home, twelve months ago slapped myself in the face, picked myself up and started pushing again. I don't believe in God but he and I have had a lot of words, Good and Bad!
Two sets of words that have helped me over the last three years...
From my highly educated Doctor friend "That's life!"
From myself "Fluck it!"
Oh yeah, if there is a dark side then there must be a good side! Try praying to the right one, positive thinking no matter where it's directed is never a bad thing!!!

Answer 5

Believe me..just bad luck alone like coincidence does not exist. Think well about your past, the people you met, what for motives they could have, try to remember things that have happened to you and analyse them. I know where you are coming from, the same has been happening to me. The only way I have been able to overcome this, is with my own optimism and determination and of course my new family.

Try to stay focused on what you want, where you want to go and what you want to do. Believe me, you can do it. I have, not quite out of it all yet, but I am very close.

Don't worry about it, make sure you eat properly and do enough sport. Forget the dark side, this is where it is all coming from...hihi and I live in Switzerland. The world is similar everywhere in its own way!

Good luck and Happy Chrimbo!

Answer 6

Never ask for help from the dark side. Heres what you shuld do. Never spend money stupidly. Always save 15.5% of it into your bank account, that way when things get bad you just dip into your saveings. Speak to your parents. Always seek help from frineds and family (aka if you have a proplem ask someone). With your family, its near chistmas. Save up for it in advance, put money aside for it as soon as you can. I know things can be bad at times, i also know what you are going though, but the dark side dosent help. I cant help that much with the health side apart fomr eat healthy, have pleanty of exices and take a vitiman tablet once a day (if you ever get a cold have as many vitiman C tablets as you like, they are water based so you can neverr have enough).

I hope this healps, if not contact me via my E-mail.

Merry chistmas.

Answer 7

ultimate - Joe Torre arms down! 4 international sequence' gained, 10 AL East Divisions clinched, and six AL Pennants! Worst - Phil Garner. along with his insistence on retaining Craig Biggio and his .288 on-base proportion contained in the leadoff slot, for that reason forcing nevertheless-promising youthful'un Chris Burke to an unfamiliar place and then the bench? With is bull pen pecking order, the way he lines up his starters. it incredibly is incredible! good luck!

Answer 8

I am diabetic, have had four heart attacks, a double by-pass and am now fitted with a pacemaker/defibrillator. I ruptured my Achilles Tendon in my left leg, and, when I fell, tore the tendons in my left shoulder. I have no cartilage in my left knee. I have gout in my right hip and foot, and Brucitis in my left elbow, I suffer from diverticulitis. I suffer from kidney failure that makes me anaemic and retain water, which means my legs and feet come up like balloons and its is painful to walk. Whilst showing people round my house, which I had to sell for financial reasons, having been ripped off to the tune of £15000 by an ex business partner, my right eye retina tore and detached its self. I have arthritis in both hands. I take 17 tablets in the morning, 1 dinner time, 10 in the evening and 1 at night.
I WOKE UP THIS MORNING, GOT OUT OF BED AND WENT AND MAKE A LOVELY HOT CUP OF TEA.
ISN'T LIFE GOOD!!!!

Answer 9

first off .. get a grip woman or man.
whatever has happened to you has happened, you can never change or alter it. and whatever will happen in future, no one knows.
but you cannot just give up on life and turn to crime. thats the easy way out. do you have food on the table? do you have clean water?
think of the number of people who die from unclean water in africa everyday? from unclean water, the most basic need that we have, yet they do not even have that. so atleast count yourself lucky that you are here and not there.
you just have to change your life and be positive?
if you dont have a job, try finding one that suits you and you would be happy with.
life is about living, dying is easy...but living is the hard part.
if you explain your situation in more depth then i could edit my answer again. hope everything works out for you.

Answer 10

stop being so miserable!


Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death
Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of ****
When you look at it
Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.
You'll see it's all a show
Keep 'em laughing as you go
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...