We argue, we dont have sex. He's lazy and he expects me to do all the house work and taking care of our son even though i ALSO work full time and go to school part time. I can't take it anymore! He's driving me nuts and the one and only thing i ask him to do is to take out the damn garbage and he still can't even do that! I'm so pissed that I just got out of work and now i have to clean the ENTIRE house again, because it was trashed when i got home. ANY help, words of encouragement or advice would be GREATLY appreciated!
2006-12-14 15:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by ~Mom2A&G~+1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're miserable now, and you argue and don't have sex, and he's lazy and expects you to do all the house work, and he can't be bothered to take out the garbage, why would you want to be in a relationship like that? You're not on the highway to hell, you're there. If he is like this now, he's only going to get worse. You should end the engagement and find someone who doesn't make you miserable. What would you tell your sister if she said to you, "My fiance makes me miserable?"
2006-12-14 16:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!!!
you're seeing signs of who he truly is
if you go through with it, you'll last a couple years [maybe] and then file for divorce because you're going insane
just save everyone the trouble
you need to find a guy who treats you right
like a princess :)
best of luck
2006-12-14 23:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get married at this point. You need to address the issues. Consider counseling. If things are this bad now they will NOT get married if you get married.
2006-12-14 23:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dr_Adventure 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that marriage would be a good idea. It seems like your fiance is just there and does nothing.
2006-12-14 23:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have been married for ten years maybe more. if this is what you want in your marriage good luck if i were you i would leave this prick you dont need that. if you were my fiance i would treat you if you were my queen
2006-12-14 23:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by wildcat30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well dump his lazy ***- you are a single parent of 2 now- drop the load!!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 23:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Are you sure you two aren't already married??
2006-12-14 23:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong...
I think that's how my mom feels, though. Hehe.
2006-12-14 23:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kali S. Loves Not You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up!
2006-12-14 23:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sasasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait wait wait...no SEX??!!! WTF!! wheres the door.
2006-12-14 23:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by dioniciovega 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋