failures have disabled my desiring ability. so im failing again. wat is it that i shud do?

Answer 1

best thing to do is think to yourself "what makes failures disable my desiring? why? does it have to be this way?" though this may not solve the problem right away it lead into empowerment which is key to taking back control of you life and getting motivated again. realize that these episodes are not forever, they subside and you can overcome them if you will it so. change your speech from "i'm failing again" to "how can i make the best of this" thereby giving yourself control over the situation rather than ascribing it to failing. this is not an instant process and does take time and the cooperation of others because, if you are in a relationship or married, it may be that the spouse is facilitating these negative thoughts i.e. criticizing cooking, appearance, smarts, etc. in that case tell them that you need them to stop so that they can help you, that this is a problem that affects both of you and the relationship and if they do not understand or do not want to comply, it might be best to reexamine the relationship.

Answer 2

You should realize that there will be areas where you will fail and just do your best but there are other areas where you will be better than others perhaps so enjoy those. If you are talking about in school, try getting some DMAE at a health food store and you will see it will help with concentration and memory. I use it all the time and can see a reall fifference in many areas!!

Answer 3

Change your mindset--------Daring to compete isn't always easy. Each and everyone of us should be made aware about the importance of giving each and every one the opportunity to grow and reach their potential. Ask yourself these questions : - Why am I so hesitant about taking on this challenge? Why aren't I thinking more seriously about it?

All of us struggle to be the best we can be. All of us wonder at times whether what lies ahead is too difficult or too challenging. In truth, sometimes our most fearsome competitor is our self, as we face our own doubts and fears on the way to reaching our potential. You have to decide to risk being the best you could be.

Answer 4

failures r the stepping stones 2 succes. analyse ur mistakes
c what u have been doing wrong and dont stop tryin
cause once u stop tryin that is when u will really fail

Answer 5

u become what u think that is one of the beautiful aspect of life.all u need to do is start experimenting it the failure will disppear.
Start experimenting ur thought,ur worries and everything.think u r suprior than anything in the world.

Answer 6

Don't give up! keep trying! don't stress out, try and relax, don't procrastinate (i should give myself that advice..) I kno it is NOT easy, but in the end, it is worth it! Try looking into tutoring, it can be very helpful. promise not to give up, u will have no future!
P.S. don't have a sour aditude! it will ruin ur life! be positive!

Answer 7

the term failure is relative. when there is success. dont get upset by failures important is to keep on trying to reach to success.as failures are the ladder to success

Answer 8

same here but that doesnt mean that life stops it goes on n on involve ur self in work with friends go for bowling etc n see u will bounce back im sure byee

Answer 9

Find something you're good at, and if you are having trouble with that find something yyou're interested in( you don't have to be the best at it, just have to enjoy it). No one expects you to be the best, your only priority is to try your best. keep your head up!

Answer 10

I think you need to start thinking about yourself as a winner. One thing I have learnt in life is that we become what we think and by thinking ourselves as winners, we become just that.