what is happening to me, this is sudden and really terrible thing for me to feel?

Question

lately ive been this other person, i used to enjoy hanging out with a bunch of people and really felt one with them,i even called them my friends, but because of certain power grabbing, competition about leadership, i no longer want to be with them or hang out even,
i also begin to be rude with my brother and sister, i feel no love coming from them, i cant even express gratitude anymore
i am beginning to not care about my family or anyone not even the ones i used to like, not even my crushes, i totally am staying away from people i know right now, is it normal to feel so much hatred and i usually just want to be on my own and not care for anyone right now,
i hope i get out of this mood or this mind set, it could really destroy me, i am being such a selfish person here, i claim that i am a friend just so i could use people for my own gain, im becoming a narcissistic individual
what could you possibly tell me, so that i would care for people around me again..im becoming a fake

Answer 1

No, you are not a fake. Just the fact that you are aware of your feelings proves that you are authentic. What you are feeling is normal. We all go through periods were we just want to be alone, to have our own space, and to not trust other people. Let's face it, most of our hurt feelings come from other people. We have all been hurt by others. This will pass, so don't be so hard on yourself. You sound like a pretty decent person to me.

Answer 2

I suspect that you have gotten a couple of good answers but one I would add is to get a good physical - if you are not eating due to feeling this way it would make it worse, and ask yourself whether you feel betrayed by one person you trusted and thus are taking it out on everyone around you, which many do.
talking to someone who is objective can help perhaps, whether a religious person, minister or the like, or a therapist.
If you have enough friends online some of them may help and there are some good sites online where you can find someone to talk to for support, such as everydaywomeneverywhere.org

Answer 3

Trust me, everyone feels like this at one point in their lives. The difference between u and them, however, is that u are not in denial and u know that u are hurting yourself and the people around u. I commend u for that. Now its up to u to decide how to proceed. Maybe it is your actions that are in turn making u feel this way. Maybe a change in environment is necessary. The solution is something only u know and can do. Trust me-THERE IS A SOLUTION. I would suggest taking some time out for yourself, and not zoning out to tv or the computer, turn on some relaxing music and sit back and think. Think of everything---good, bad, happy, sad,morbid, unconventional-whatever. Write it down! Then u can reflect later. Trust me, u can feel better. Try being nice to your siblings--even if its forced, offer to help them with something, or go get ice cream or whatever. Just try to make contact. They will reciprocate.
I hope this helps!!!

Answer 4

if u made a consious disision 2 use people then ur a user n ur now realizing ur mistake n shame. no wonder u cant face any1 . its easier 2 hate them then ur self if u want 2 go back 2 the old genuine u say ur sorry 2 those uv hurt n heal. BUT have u lost interest in other things u once liked as well cos u could also be suffering the begining of depression. u o it 2 ur self 2 investigate the posability with ur doctor.hang in there.

Answer 5

Your describing depression symptoms. Some people get very depressed during winter months.Going to a tanning bed may help.if not talk to your primary doctor.I know it can be embarrassing to talk about but hey you only see them once in awhile.It's not like you hang out with your doctor and it is confidential.
If you were a total fake and really didn't care you wouldn't of asked this question.i think everyone gets depressed at some point.Nothing wrong with getting professional help but like I said try
tanning beds something with uv rays.Also vitamins or ginseng.

Answer 6

Being a retired mental health practitioner with 20+ years experience, I can say that, as much as you have said, I'll need a lot more information in order to see if you're "diagnosable". Personal and family history would be significant. Current age would be good. Medical history would be good. And a bit more. So, to "diagnose" your situation with what you said would be unprofessional and completely wrong. Maybe you want to go tell a professional all this and what I've asked about and more, as they want, and they can tell you what's wrong, if anything. God Bless you.

Answer 7

you need to grab the phone book and look for a therapist in your area that specializes in whats called cognitive behavioural therapy. ( if you cant find one, call your local health authority and ask them for a referal to a Psychologist who does cognitive behavioural therapy)
this will help you learn why you have so much built up anger, and how to reslove the issues so you can move past them and be at peace again and able to really connect with others again. You have clearly been hurt somehow, and you need to stop the hurt and leran how to make it better.
Good Luck

Answer 8

Wow that is terrible. Are you young (teens early twenties?) Because age can have something to do with it. Go see a professional, maybe you have depression. Talk to someone even a minister or something would be a step in the right direction. Get help so that this does not "destroy" you.

Answer 9

Is there anything you know that might have caused this? Maybe annoying parents or someone influencial and constantly around you making you subconciously become like that?

I think you need to find that one special friend that will just be a good shoulder to lean on.

It might be depression. There may be a chemical imbalence of serotonin in your brain that causes depression, that would take medication to fix, try www.webmd.com and search it up, see if you have the symptoms

Answer 10

Heavenly Father I ask that Your Holy Spirit of comfort and peace that surpasses understanding would be with her during this emotional time, and thank you for giving her wisdom to know what to do, and for helping her to make the right choices. I ask that she would feel Your presence so near to her so she can touch Your love and Your warmth, and I pray that You wrap Your loving arms around her in a special way, just the way she needs right now.

hugs for you =)