2006-12-14 14:44:49 · 12 answers · asked by bidalishus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were given the most beautiful gift of all: FREE WILL!!! The most amazing thing is to make choices and our own mistakes. If your partner was already picked for you when you were born then you would miss out in more than half of the human experience. Date, have fun, and when you are ready to make the commitement then go for it but don't tie yourself down if you don't feel like monogamy is for you. Bigamy is unfair for all the people involved.
2006-12-14 15:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by darlalee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because we all have a conscious and we have to make the right decisions based on where we are in our life at a particular time. Another words...knowing the difference between right and wrong. That would be why we weren't born married already, so we can meet and choose our partner and make that step of committment to each other.
2006-12-14 22:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not meant to be monogamous at all, especially men!
Men are programmed to spread their seed as much as they can until the day they die, which is probably why they are able to procreate until old age, unlike women who have to suffer through menopause during their forties or fifties mostly.
On a subconscious level, men want & need to be polygamous but western society forbids them to do so and to remain committed & faithful to one woman only throughout their whole life, which is completely going against the grain, so to speak.
How come we weren`t born married?!?
How can you ask such a mind-numbing question???
I can only assume that you are trying to be funny.
2006-12-14 22:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Well, that is the essence of love. You have to wait. And if you are already there you must remain loyal. It is so weird to think if we were born married because little ones really don't have knowledge about relationships.
2006-12-14 22:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some countries, we pretty much are born married. Granted, they are arranged marraiges, but still...
Anyway, who says we're meant to be monogamous?
2006-12-14 22:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by floppybelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married and monogamous...you don't have to be one to be the other!
2006-12-14 22:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, what a stupid question. If you don't believe in monogamy then don't get married jerk. Or just marry someone else who doesn't believe in monogamy, they're called swingers.
2006-12-14 22:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by K M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then we couldn't pick who we wanted to be married too silly!
2006-12-14 22:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>So totally stupid people would stand less of a chance of reproducing. I see it isn't working well anymore.<
2006-12-14 22:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by Druid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when God was handing out brains, you must of thought He said drains
2006-12-14 22:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋