formor husband very abusive,friend killed,wife ,kid,self, say it could have been her and son,she won't love me, says that i don't understand, can't hardly touch her, now its not love,its just sex but wich we don't have any way!
2006-12-14 14:29:51 · 7 answers · asked by pisser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't understand, remember your talking to total strangers not somebody that knows some of the history
2006-12-14 14:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is give her the suppot she needs and even if you don't understand try to. it sounds like your wife has had it hard. it is your job to nuture her and make her feel safe again. what ever she has gone through has left emotional scars and only time can heal those (sometimes).
2006-12-14 22:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i to came from a very abusive relationship, no body died that i know of but he tried to harm me and our daughter many times, i finally had the courage to leave but it haunted me for years then i met a man who i wanted to love but i just couldn't i was afraid in my eyes men were evil and they may seam nice and loving but one day they will snap and show there real side, the man i wanted to be with stayed with me despite the way i felt and even though i couldn't bring myself to get close to him he is the one who made me feel secure finally it took a year before we started dating officially but in reality we almost were anyways i just wouldn't beable it was a relationship by him being there and understanding i realize he was the perfect man and she will to you just have to give it time and it will take time if you love her she will know shes just scared but it will pass with time
2006-12-14 22:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has the world came to??
2006-12-14 22:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by canada4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question makes no sense.
2006-12-14 22:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs alot of therapy
2006-12-14 23:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience, let wife open up, dude I don't understand what are you saying. Please type in standard english please.
2006-12-14 22:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋