if your boyfriend opened up a my space account behind your back and all his "friends" were girls. and he didn't tell you?
2006-12-14 14:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by sillyme24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hoiw did you find out about his Myspace account? If you were snooping or looking through his computer, condsider this. Maybe you had a gut feeling that something was wrong. Why else would you invade his privacy? Don't just focus on the myspace account, focus on what led you to find it. And most important, do you trust him?
Have you comfronted him about this? If yes, what were his answers? Take if from an online flirter who is paying the ultimate price, he may be unhappy in the relationship and just doesn't want to hurt you. Ask him to sit down and be HONEST! Dont judge before you hear his side of the story. You may be relieved that he is finally telling you the truth. This could be his scream for help. At least take the time to listen.
2006-12-14 14:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by jag3195 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil says that anything you do behind your significant others' back, that you wouldn't do while they were around, is considered cheating. By keeping his myspace a secret he was being quite dishonest. Personally, I don't think it's cheating--at least not technically. However, I do think he's well on his way by forming contacts with all of these girls...Be suspicious.
2006-12-14 14:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is cheating, but it definitely is deceitful. Find out what he is doing with these "friends" and then you may be able to consider his behavior cheating. I personally, would not tolerate that kind of behavior in a relationship, especially if he does things behind your back.
2006-12-14 14:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not cheating but you have to wonder why he opened an account behind your back and all his friends happen to be girls only??? maybe you should ask him.
2006-12-14 14:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Iowa_Bound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BF still has an individual's right to privacy. It is a boundary issue. It is a poor choice and may suggest a need for dialogue on his insecurity, but it is not cheating.
2006-12-14 14:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not "cheating", but it sounds like he is in a different place in your relationship than you are. He is still "playing the field" and is doing things he doesnt want you to know about. If you are serious about him, and this is more than a casual thing--move on. He obviously isnt serious about your relationaship.
2006-12-14 14:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by little1missy1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would consider a beginning to the thought process in cheating
i would definitely be pissed
i would open up my own account with all male friends!!
2006-12-14 14:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cheating but he obviously has issues with being opened and honest with you...
2006-12-14 14:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander!
2006-12-14 14:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by seviliasrevenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is giving you reasons not to trust him. Life is too short, move along.
2006-12-14 14:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋