2006-12-14 13:38:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. get him to a doctor make sure there is nothing physically wrong. then go to a coucilor. to leave just for lack of sex is just wrong. sure it gets lonely but you should be talking to him.
2006-12-14 13:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important patr of your relationship but is it that important? I don't believe a bad sex life warrants a divorce. If you love each other why not try and work on the sex thing, there are programs and councellors available etc. It may be what you need to rekindle the sex drive and have a successful and happy marriage.
2006-12-14 13:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help. Divorce is not the answer for people who love each other. Communication is, and obviously you two aren't communicating very well.
Somewhere, there may be hidden hurts, or a power/control issue, but that doesn't spell death to a marriage. Find out what is wrong and fix it.
People spend a lot of time looking for love, and you've found it. Make it work.
2006-12-14 13:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by B K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married my husband and i average 1 a week that doesn't mean every week it means 4 times a month it got to where I mark it on a calendar but we do other things together we go out and he does comment on me when he comes home from work or at dinner or in the morning just a good morning love or a call from work makes me feel good a marriage just isn't based on sex there have to be other issues. you are not telling
2006-12-14 13:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by twister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are asking what??? no you dont get a divorce just because you aren't having sex, is there a real reason why you aren't having sex??? does he have a medical condition like ed?? its one that he might wish to see his doctor about because its more common that what he may think. Other than medical issues maybe it is YOU that needs to entice sex between you guys, maybe where something sex or just try to turn him on and after all he is your husband so you should know how to make him warm up and get turned on, go on give it a try, I'm sure it'll work for you..
Mitch
2006-12-14 13:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you love each other, there is hope so I would say no, don't get divorced. You need to do more romantic things for each other to get turned on. I would say go on dates, bring each other gives, include an element of surprise, volunteer ways to help your partner, compliment him, pay attention to him and support him. Ask him to do the same for you. You really need to talk about how you feel and how you can change. You might try counseling. A good counselor can help you think of concrete ways to get out of the rut.
2006-12-14 13:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These sorts of things happen all too often. Usually it ends up where you have a great sex life and no love life or no sex life and a great love life.
To put it simply, you should ask yourself which one is more important to you, sex or caring for each other?
2006-12-14 13:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot more to a relationship than sex. I understand it might be frustrating but if the love is still there, maybe you can discuss it with him and try to get counseling...if its something that he just isn't interested in, you have to evaluate your life and see if sex is all that your relationship is about, if it isn't, stay and work it out with him, you can have a beautiful relationship without sex....unless you opt for sex without a beautiful relationship...your choice...hope you make the right decision...good luck.
2006-12-14 13:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take matters into your own hands. Change the mood , and see if you can turn the fire up. If you love each other, then it would be a bad idea to divorce.
We all age , so later sex is not a big deal. Dying alone could be.
2006-12-14 13:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by ML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no why dont you have sex if its tired or bordem then talk about it if you love each other this wont be hard to talk it out get divorced and will that get you more sex or do you want another guy or woman because your bored
2006-12-15 08:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered counseling?
If you love each other, then some effort doesn't seem too much to make.
Lack of a sex like does sound like there's a problem which counseling could help.
2006-12-14 13:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋