when a husband cheats...?

Question

when your husband cheats on you several times, is it because the wife is not good enough? is because he doesn't love her? why do husband cheat?

Answer 1

It could be that he doesnt love her, or he thinks she's not good enough, but if that's what he told you ( if your the person he's cheating with ) he is a liar ! and a cheat .. Men tend to cheat for the thrill of sneaking around, it's usually with a slut, or close to it, but of course that's no comfort for the wife.. It is really painful when you have a cheating spouse. You feel helpless, they make you think something is wrong with you if they are caught, or questioned about unusual behavior. This is all guilt coming out of them.. But the thrill does appear to be in the sneaking part, and something new, or someone new to tell them things you might have stopped telling them.. They could even blame you for cheating .. But remember there is never a reason to cheat .. NEVER !!! They should be a man and say hey I cheated and allow you the chance to decide if you want to forgive him or move on, but most men really have to get caught right in the act to admit it , and then sometimes they blame the other girl,, Men always have a lame excuse .. Sorry I'm not hating on all the men or husbands.. But , this is the way it is .. If more women stuck with women, we would have a lot less cheating husbands. But a lot of women even friends would cheat with your husband or keep his secret from you.. I do wish you all the luck ll One piece of advice .. Never let yourself wollow around in the mud just because he does, keep your morals.. You will be the winner in the end.... Wonderful Question .. Many women are suffering at this very moment over this very thing . I wish there was a magic bullett for this problem..

Answer 2

your husband will cheat when he isn't taken cared of at home. A Or when it's becoming unbearable with putting up with the moaning and groaning of the wife. ANother reason is when a wife quits giving her husband enough sex. But some reasons are just no good enough for a husband to cheat on his wife. The biggest reason is because there is no cummunication at home. That's the reason the wife cheats also. She wants him to go to a party he doesn't cause he's too tired so she goes alone and meets a guy who treated her good and communicates with her and listens to her and she will cheat. Sam e as the husband. But now a days a couple needs to communicate, and ask all kinds of questions to each other. Then it might get interesting next time you go to bed.

Answer 3

I seem to be the only one who thinks about the selfish b******
out there who are lonely and feel totally justified encouraging married men to mess around. They will tell the men "Oh, you deserve somebody who treats you better than that." Or "You are a pussy to be staying home everynight. You should go out and have some fun." Or "You shouldn't stay with a woman who does this, that, etc. whatever." They don't care if they break up a home, because its all about them. Without them there wouldn't be cheating husbands. I'm not saying men don't initiate it, I'm out there everyday too, but women do a disgrace to all other women when they cheat with their men. If somebody cheats on his wife with you, what makes you think he'll be any different when you get him. But anyway you don't care because you don't want him anyway, its just the thrill of the chase.

Answer 4

they cheat because they think they are getting something they aren't getting at home. they have a lack of self control, and poor character. they don't think or care about their wife's hurt, or if she suffer's, it is all self serving, and all about them. he no longer loves her, and it has very little to do with the wife, or if she is or isn't good enough . she should not blame herself, or define herself by his actions. usually it is just about some homewrecker, that has gone after the hubby, and shows him all the things, that he and the wife aren't doing anymore. so he really believes he is in love. sometimes he cheats so he can manipulate the new woman, as she doesn't know him yet, and the wife does. they just don't want to work to save the marriage, for some it is so much easier, and requires less effort to just go out and cheat, and replace the wife he has.usually they are immature, and lack insight, and don't see the consequences.

Answer 5

cheating rarely has anything to do with a lack of attraction to, or direct disappointment with a wife/husband. It has a lot more to do with the person who is cheating having no self control and a selfish disposition. In my opinion if a spouse cheats he/she should be kicked to the curb. Nobody deserves to put up with crap like that! And if someone does it once and gets away with it, they will probably do it again (regardless of what they claim at the time)

Answer 6

O god...I hate cheaters. They deserve to be put through hell in return. Im not sure. I've meet a husband that seemed to be a really great guy and his wife seems just awsome. She is the wife a normal guy would want...me anyway. She was always there, made dinner all the time, she took good care of him..she was a really great gal. And that bastered cheated or I should say cheats on her. Ugh...which is why I hate guys...cant stand them and cant get along with them...seems 90% of the guy population...are all *** hole want to get laid...ugh..irritating..what happen to respect for women. Anyway...maybe hes just one of the 90%.

Answer 7

Because he is a selfish person, and has no regard for the marriage vows he took. Even if there are problems in the marriage, there is no reason to cheat....If your husband has cheated on you several times....please understand that this will not change. You need to think about your options......

Answer 8

When a man cheats on his woman it is not because the woman has done anything wrong apart from being with him in the first place. Men and women who cheat are selfish and care for no-one but themselves. Does he love you? If he does you need to run and run real fast. Dont think that he will stop because he wont. I stayed with my ex for 9 years until he gave me an STI.
My advise is once again RUN FAST....

Answer 9

Because they are insecure scumbags (coming from a guy who has never cheated or been cheated so no bitterness) I have a friend who cheated on every girlfriend he ever had, and the fact is he is just immature and insecure, when he gets attention from another woman it makes him feel special and he doesn't consider the consequences to himself or his girlfriend. He could have the worlds most perfect woman and he would still cheat because he is insecure and an idiot.

Answer 10

When a man cheats on his wife, it has absolutely NOTHING to do with the wife. Truly and honestly. It is the man who is the pig, who has not taken his wedding vows seriously, and who is crapping all over your marriage. He is trying to find some way to deal with HIS insecurities, HIS mental or physical problems, and HIS head being messed up.
I'm sorry for you, but please don't waste a second of your time blaming yourself for ANYTHING>