How to do it...?

Question

I’ve never had sex b4 and i want to cuz i love him! the thing is idk how to....i know it sounds dumb but I’m serious...like wat do i do or say...and how do i know he wants to do it with me...our relationship is serious and weve been goin out for about 4 months...please help me..

idk y every1 thinks im young 4 it....I"M 17!

Answer 1

Let's talk about this. . . you don't state your age so you are young no doubt. You can love him all you want, but. . . ask the following questions b4 you start this out...
1. am I willing to take a chance of being pregnant? (there is NO safe sex, even with "protection" and I know you are not taking pills).
2. am I willing to get caught by my folks or his or for that matter my friends?
3. am I willing to give up the ONE and ONLY gift I can give to my future husband, my virginity?
4. am I willing to give up my b/f (because the likelihood is he will stay for only a little while after you give it up---regardless of what he says). Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
5. am I willing to give up my self respect (because you WILL lose it when you give in)?\
6. am I willing to give up my reputation (because somebody else WILL find out and eventually tell your parents probably)?
7. If I get pregnant am I willing to give up my education, my social life, my financial future, my emotional future, etc?
8. If I get pregnant who will pay for my medical care ($ 10-15,000 to bring the baby into the world, $ 10-15,000 for the first year of its life).
9. what do I tell my parents (or his or both) if I get caught, or get pregnant?

Being in love is great. Having sex means MAJOR responsibilities and possibly MAJOR hurt. Do yourself a favor, wait.

You don't need instruction in sex, you need instruction in living life.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

4 months may seem like forever, but it's not --- serious doesn't happen in 4 months unless you're like 14 years old. Wait a while, you'll be glad you did. Intimacy is serious stuff --- it will change your life, how you feel about yourself and him. Girls tend to view sex as a romantic thing, while most boys think of it as getting off. Wait till you're both more mature.

Answer 4

It is an extremely natural and intimate moment and time.. and at that age... yea.. he will want to do it with you....

I know this sounds dumb but how about talking to your mom about sex.... ask her, if she has any rememberance to when she was young she may have some empathy for you.. if that is out of the question... then..

be together... and it will happen...

you probably should wait till your 18 or so... married or so.. but... who knows, scary time in your life..

Answer 5

If you don't know how to have sex your too young to even think about having sex.Just because you love him does not mean you should have sex.You've only been together for 4 months why don't you wait for AT LEAST a year.And he probably does want to have sex but that does not mean you should,he might say "if you love me you will" just don't do it because chances are he will leave you anyway.

Answer 6

Am..... I think you always think first if he loves too, Then, I think this is silly, but nice way to tell. Just ask him about it, and ask when he was ready to do it for your relationship. Don't forget to use the # 1 thing in that case. I hope i don't need to write it anymore coz everybody knows dis!

Answer 7

your still to young save yourself and he will wait and your wedding night will be the most incredible night of your life. Once your virginity is gone, you will never ever have it back. That person will always be inside you. Even if he cheats on you, then you will have to explain to your husband that he is not your first, and trust me that is the most painful experience, I know because I had to.

Answer 8

When is the last time you asked for permission to kiss him? I'm betting you never did. It just happened. Sex will be like that. You both will know when you're ready.

Answer 9

ok i will tell you how to have sex.first both of you get naked.next rub his penis.next let him stick his fingers up you.next get on top of him and put his penis up your vagina.then just keep doing that for a while untill your done.

ps;im only 12 and i have already had real hard sexand it feels so good.

Answer 10

Even though you are 17, that still doesn't make you ready. Maybe you should really wait till you are forsure, then let your partner teach you. I feel bad for you.