(im 15) i really like this girl that i once went out with before and i wanna go back out with her but recently she doesnt talk to me much and i know she likes other people but i wanna win her back and should i give her a christmas gift with a note showing my true feelings or what( by the way shes into that emo stuff)
2006-12-14 13:16:54 · 20 answers · asked by born to live, bred to die 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say that you go for it; although if you get your feelings hurt ,it is better, it is better knowing then not knowing.
2006-12-14 13:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Im nice...not 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as im 15 also and i hang out with emos and stuff....i think u should buy her a necklace or something......or a nice christmas card and inside write her a poem if ur talented or just a nice little love note...chances are ull win her back if u talk to her and tell her ur true feelings
good luck!
2006-12-14 13:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pookie, I would advise you to just move on yourself. I
believe she has given you a clear indication that she
is no longer interested in you. Wish her a Merry Christmas and start looking around for some one else.
At age 15 you are, in my opinion, too young to become
involved in a serious relationship. You are still maturing
emotionally as well as physically. Just settle for good friends and work on that. Wait until you turn 17 to start
any serious relationship. Just my 2 cents worth.
2006-12-14 13:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - if she isn't in to you a gift won't change things and it will make you look like a looser. You just have to accept that she is on to other things and move on yourself. I am sure there is another girl pining for you just look to the girls you know and hang out with you may find a pleasant treasure right there. Good Luck!
2006-12-14 13:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do that, sounds really sweet. If she still isn't interested then her lose and you should just move on after that. Other than that, stay in school, and don't get to caught up in girls til the right time. Good Luck and Merry Christmas!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-14 13:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to sound like a momma your young an life is short just be friends an give up that datin stuff just have fun an if you really like her theres nothin wrong with you givin her a gift ( as a friend) an remember shes a female our feelings change like the wind
2006-12-14 13:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by denisedaja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her again, you're going to have to win her back. This has happened to me before, and it took awhile, but it worked. Just play it cool, give her something nice, have a chat, and play it cool. Don't make it look like you're desperate, as it could end the whole relationship and scare her away.
Even if it doesn't end the way you wanted to, you tried, and that's the most important thing. She may have been feeling the same way.
Just act like your normal self, apologize, and play it cool. ;)
2006-12-14 13:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Adriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Buy her a little something. It doesn't have to be something expensive. It can be something that reminds you of her, something sweet and endearing. I would express in the card how you feel about her and be honest too with your feelings. I think this is a great way to try and win her over again.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 13:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would like to go see a movie or out to eat for CHRISTmas. Maybe a gift card to where she loves to shop.
2006-12-14 13:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy her a brand new car and it wouldn't matter. Give her some space, go find out about yourself, then if she is still interested, she will make the first move.But for God's sake don't go writing notes about "how much you care". she knows that already. just give her some time.
2006-12-14 13:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by the big sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Which is worse, her telling you that she doesn't feel that way for you, or, not giving her anything and then wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if you did give her a gift?
2006-12-14 13:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋