i had some good answers and others that were dumb as sht. Frist of all i didn't say i was in one yet. I'm going to be sent to one very soon. I know this cause my lawyer said i was going. And it's going to be a high level one because it's county. And for county they have to have it high in Nj because this is where they hold who have killed, robed, raped and all the good sht untill they can be sent away.
2006-12-14 13:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by Shmee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Wow...sorry to hear it. I don't know...I guess you have to assess the situation and determine what would be the best course for yourself and your safety. It would also depend on how long you will be staying, I would think...I would consider these options (in no particular order)...
1. Act crazy. Make it so no one wants anything to do with you...say off the wall stuff that makes no sense.
2. Be yourself. Try to seek out and find folks who seem like you or that seem like people you knew on the outside. See if there are any groups or things that you could join that could keep you busy and out of trouble. At the Oregon State Penn, for example, they have a recording studio, a rodie school, jobs, etc...maybe something like that.
3. Act mean. If you can pull this one off (i.e. your not a skinny weakling like myself) and still feel good about yourself, it might work. As long as you don't hurt anyone or do something stupid that will give you more time in jail. Problem if you run into someone meaner, though...this seems like not the best option.
4. Find God, Mohamad, Buddah, or whatever. I think religion and jails go hand in hand. If you have any interest in any religion, this would be a good time to perhaps learn a bit more and find people who you can have interesting discussions with. OR, find a political cause or something you really really belive in and learn a ton about it and write letters to people in government, newspapers, etc.
5. Create...write, draw, sing, etc.
These aren't things where you have to pick one or the other...you could be the crazy guy who writes poetry, or the freindly guy who found god, or the mean guy who terrorizes everyone else but gets terrorized in the end by other mean guys...I think you'll have to sort of feel out the situation and decide what will work best for you. Good luck and get out as soon as you can.
2006-12-14 13:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by prekinpdx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on where you are going. Dont shy away from people. Hold your ground. Find good friends who you can trust. If someone gets into your face, be prepared to defend yourself.
Jail is no treat man. Thats about as real as I can be.
2006-12-14 21:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tropicalboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand why you are angry and stressed , anyone would be . I would talk to someone and find out how to repent .
Just asking for forgiveness can also help to save your Hiney .
I'll say a prayer for you too !
2006-12-14 21:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get real close to bob, or you might be getting your colon checked out.
2006-12-14 21:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself and don't worry.Bubba loves you.
2006-12-14 21:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋