How do kids in lower grades become bullies then how do you get them to change?

Question

Any help? Is it a phase?

Answer 1

Try to get the problem worked out ASAP! If you don't, that "phase" possibly becomes a lifelong behavior.

1. If they're in your class, keep accurate student records (date, time, behavior and resulting discipline).

2. Contact your principal and the child's counselor so that a
parent conference can be scheduled immediately. This is for
both the bully and victim.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

The longer that we wait, the less chance we have on stopping this problem. I believe that we need for each student to be assigned a seat for lunch (elementary school) and that seat should be reassigned every week for the entire year. I believe that this would expose our children to a different group of peers every week and might allow them to become friends with a larger group of people. At the very least, they would not be getting together with the same group PLOTTING how to harm others. I feel that many young people learn about bullying either from games they play, relatives they live with, or TV that they watch. These things can not be changed or affected by us. PLEASE find an answer and publish it for other school districts to use if it works. I hope that you are successful in this. Have a great holiday.
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Answer 3

Children become bullies when the territorial instinct overcomes their level of education. Like inferior animals, they try to establish an hierarchy within their collectivity. Some of the bullies might have good results in school, but the majority of them are students who fail to assimilate the required quantity of knowledge and choose to show their supremacy through physical means. They will obey, though, a person who shows them that he/she is superior in both ways: intellectual and physical. In ten years of teaching, I have never touched any of the bullies, but I always kept them under my control using a strong eye contact (look them straight in the eye and make them look at me - kind of dramatic, I know, but it worked), strong voice (not shouting, though) and most importantly, no hesitation in applying the school's regulations. I personally consider that it is a mistake to show compassion to the "victims". The bullies must understand that you don't try to defend the "victims" (they will make more victims just to give you more work to do), but to re-inforce the law, so to speak.

Answer 4

You can't. The best that you can hope for is that the child has a conscience, and ask the child, "How would you feel if someone did that to you?"
If the child is being violent, call the child's father and have him come to school and take him away right then and there. Let the father deal with the discipline problem.

Answer 5

I'd recommend making sure that they don't have family problems.

Also, make sure you watch out for the victims of the bullies.

Answer 6

Be firm, don't let them get away with it. but at the same time, u should be friendly too, not at tht moment but later on, ask them why they do so ?

Answer 7

hmmmm study i would i flunked a scents test