would like to love another person for life, but i am all ways getting hurt, just wondering how not to get hurt anymore.
2006-12-14 12:52:12 · 7 answers · asked by everyone just calls me mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People can always hurt each other - no matter how much love they have for one another. Sometimes we simply have to accept the possibility that we could get hurt and trust God that it won't cause more pain than we can handle.
You know that we grow through our trials, that pain makes us stronger and kinder. "God sits as a refiner and purifier of silver" - someone who works silver keeps the metal in the fire so that all the impurities burn away and the metal becomes stronger, they know the metal is ready to be shaped for its true purpose when they can see their reflection in the metal.
Maybe you just need to grow stronger. Learn that loving someone else might mean getting hurt, but the moments of love will always be worth the pain. (Not if he starts abusing you or anything like that though!!) Heavens, you cannot even love a friend without the possiblity of getting hurt. You might do something that hurts your friend, or your friend might say something that hurts you, but that doesn't mean that you won't have any friends right?
Just trust that the Lord will lead you along the right path, through everything you need to learn from, till He finally presents you with the person He wants you to be with. Just remember that even then there will be fights and arguements, but that, in the end, love will win.
Besides, if we didn't know pain, how could we know that joy or love were so special, so wonderful?
2006-12-14 13:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Katra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you know the person uses sterile stuff and opens it in front of you. If you are under 18 and getting it without parental permission then the person if not a reputable tattoo artist. If something happens your parents could sue them because you are underage. How do you plan on cleaning it? My SIL got a tattoo between her shoulder blades and she had to have her family help her clean it because she couldn't reach there. I'm assuming that you don't plan on going swimming or to any school dances until you are 18, because it will show. Also the tattoo you are planning to get may not be something you want say in 5 years, what are you going to do then?
2016-05-24 06:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose your men wisely..even though its a tough thing to do. Someday your mr right will come along. Just be patient it will happen. If you go looking for love it wont happen,,,,it will happen when you are least expecting it though. True love will find you. We have all been hurt before its just a part of life and we are all scared it will happen again....but these are the chances you have to take,unless you want to be single the rest of your life. Just take your time. It will happen.
2006-12-14 12:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to ensure you will never get hurt by another person, and that is not to love anyone again. Unfortunately people aren't perfect in one way or another people always fall short of your expectations
2006-12-14 12:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to find the right person...that person will not deliberately hurt you. Someone once said "I rather have loved & lost than never to have loved at all" take a chance!
2006-12-14 12:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to be sure that you won't get hurt. it's a part of life. i love my husband but we hurt eachother sometimes. not on purpose, but it happens. you just need to live and love. i promise that at the end of your life if you have given up on love you will regret it.
2006-12-14 12:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect so much.
Don't be sooo optimistic.
Enjoy it. Be happy.
Know that God has a plan for you.
2006-12-14 12:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋