2006-12-14 12:51:37 · 15 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well one thing is take him outta school for a while and home school him (I mean at home, you teach him, not some group were he can still be rude to adults) or stick his butt in military school for a while, it'll hurt like hell to put him through it, but he'll learn to hold his tung and some respect for people, don;t put him there for too long though, and don't pull him out when he starts crying, wait until YOU can see the difference.
best to you, and hope you make the best choice and he can learn where he belongs
PS, I'm not some old grump, I'm 15, and I just learned from my grandpa how to act like this, I'm sorry if I came off too strong and I don't mean for it to sound like your son is the worst kid in the world.
2006-12-14 13:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by SamIAm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he can do what he wants as long as he follows 3 rules, or how ever many(try to keep it to a low number). I'd suggest rules of nothing illegal, honor roll(or all B's, or whatnot), and a limit on the number of nights out a week. Or maybe to be respectful to aldults. Tell him that if he ever breaks any of these rules he'll be grounded for a year.
This way, you get what you want and he gets what he wants.
2006-12-14 13:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sofishortss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For standard habit themes, I made my son a "megastar" chart. I used velcro and made spots to adhere on the celebs, besides as slightly holder for the celebs. I in simple terms used posterboard from Staples or workplace Depot. he will earn a megastar for beneficial issues and lose a megastar (or extra effective than one) for the failings you relatively have the desire to make him avert doing. you are able to start each and on a daily basis with perhaps 3 stars and have him artwork in direction of in spite of objective you like. For a without delay week of achieving say, seven stars an afternoon, he gets a reward, perhaps gets to %. out a action picture to observe or gets a %. of baseball enjoying cards or in spite of he likes and is comparatively low-priced. This month the project may be potty words and next month it must be something else. artwork by way of beneficial reinforcement, and get truthfully at the back of him doing nicely. you do no longer ought to scold him or shame him whilst he loses a megastar, yet of direction, enable him understand that he's dropping one and why (in accordance to the guidelines.) it is not a bad theory to placed up rules the two, yet do no longer comprise what relatively the words are, in simple terms call them potty words. and of direction do no longer use those words your self. shop it beneficial and he will respond, and you will additionally shrink the entice of the "forbidden" issues.
2016-10-14 23:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no back ground info so its hard to say ...is it possilble he has adhd? Have him checked by a peadatrician for any health problems....even bad eyesight can cause behavioural problems...leads to headaches and crankiness.Also it can depend on home lifestyle and what is expected of him there is he one of several children and looking for attention? Like i say not enough info but the one thing i do say is the problem is at school it should be left at school if all other issues are ruled out.
2006-12-14 13:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO! DONT WHIP HIM DONT SPANK HIM! let me exsplain why... ok im 14 and i may have a theroy why he could be acting this way.... it could be a sign of anger or depression... had his teachers noticed any problems paying attention to his work? if so he may have ADHD like ME!....... when i was in 3rd grade i became very disruptive and disrespectful to adults because they just dident understand what was going on.. i was having a hardtime paying attention and listinging to directions... it used to aggervate me and i would get so frusterated that i would throw a fit..... you should check into having some tests done becuase it may be something that he cant controlle or he needs help with... i would take him for some hereing tests and stuff because he may have adhd and you may not relize that he needs help! so please dont beat him just sit him down and talk there is no need to be violent to a kid.... i prob dident help but i tried
2006-12-14 13:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The same thing I tell every parent.You have to have consistence in his life.Mainly with your rules and if he doesn't obey them then each time u need to punish him. It starts at home if he is disrespectful at school them most likely he is getting away with it at home.Good luck
2006-12-14 13:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whip him, he may almost be a teenager but if you don't controll this now you never will and there is no telling where he'll be in 4 years when he's 16 if you don't stop it now.
2006-12-14 12:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
i have one simple solution. beat his @ss
That always works trust me i got my @ss beat when i did sum stupid sh*t and i was set straight yet i still do wild out
2006-12-16 12:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by John R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many,many years ago , in a land far far away, people actually diciplined children.They also taught them the fear of jesus.
2006-12-14 13:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by jo jo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
listen and talk positively to him
2006-12-14 20:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by stefan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋