2006-12-14 12:27:28 · 20 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
why do you want to have an abortion in the first place? at 37 you might not have many years left to fall pregnant again, babies are the best gift you can ever be given and not everyone is lucky enough to be given that gift so have a long hard think about what you really want to do as once its done you can never go back...goodluck
2006-12-14 12:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what makes me upset and sickens me??? How so many adults get pregnant and murder there babies.
Ya want to know something... I was raped at like 14 and got pregnant, I kept my baby but miscarried and then at 16 I got pregnant again. I new right away I was going to be a single mom but I did not go cry to a clinic and kill my baby because unlike your idiot selfish *** I am mature and took responsibility for my actions, I was old enough to have sex so I was old enough to deal with the consequences.
If you are really 37 then you should be ashamed and are a pathetic excuse for a human being, very sad that a adult will run to a clinic because of how irresponsible and stupid they are but a teenager will stand up and take responsibility for a baby..You know the world is going down the whole when a teen is more responsible then a adult.
2006-12-14 14:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't harass you like others have for getting an abortion. But I will say I really wouldn't suggest it. There is alternatives. Consider adoption. So many couples are just longing to adopt a baby. You could be the person to complete their life. I do understand this may not be the best time for you personally to have a child for whatever reasons you have, but please don't have an abortion. Your unborn baby has done nothing wrong and deserves a chance in life, even if it may be with another family who will love it unconditionally. Also, please consider your age. At 37 you are already on the down side of age to be having a baby. I wouldn't suggest at all having one later. There is such great risks of complications such as Downs Sydrome.
As for your exact question, it will not harm your chances of getting pregnant again if it does entirely correctly. I wish you and your unborn child the best of luck and love.
2006-12-14 13:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mish B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an abortion when I was pregnant with twins, because my husband threatened to leave me and take our little boy who was 1 at the time. He said we couldn't afford two more kids. I had already had 3 miscarriages prior to having my son. i am pregnant again, two years after the abortion, and I just found out the baby didn't form. I feel like I am being punished.
Me and my husband are now getting a divorce also.
2006-12-14 12:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a abortion now? But want to get pregnant later? There is some research that show some women have a hard time getting pregnant when they want. But each woman is different and I guess there is no way of knowing until that time comes. I would keep my baby. I just don't understand why in this country it is so important to have the right to destroy our offspring. It does not make any sense to me at all.
2006-12-14 12:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by cliffhanger 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having an abortion will reduce the chances of getting pregnant in the future especially at your age. Many people younger than you have been trying to get pregnant and can't, think that you have been blessed and have your baby, I'm sure you can handle it, you won't regret it
2006-12-14 14:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is entirely up to you to decide. Women have the right to a choice. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for two years now and would do anything for a baby. So keep in mind how lucky you are to have gotten pregnant. You really need to make the choice that's right for your situation. Are you able to financially take care of this child, be a good mother, etc.? But please consider adoption, I know I would be more than happy to adopt, and there's lots of other people out there that would too.
2006-12-14 13:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs_M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not trying to be harsh, but 37 is not that young when it comes to conceiving. If you want a baby, keep the one you have. It's selfish to think "Well, I can't deal with this now, so I'll kill my baby. But hopefully one day I'll get pregnant again!" You don't pick and choose.
2006-12-14 14:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well woman are getting pregnant at an older age now a days so as long as u get ur proceedure done at a reputable place things should be ok but when they do the counseling for the abortion u should ask if there is permenant damage done that would cause u to not be able to get pregnant.. just understand that no matter who does ur proceedure there are risks no matter what
2006-12-14 12:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur so lucky girl! god blesses you the capability of bearing a child and now u want to destroy it? your so blessed! i would not suggest for you to have an abortion it will have some complications in latter life and besides there is s karma..i do hope u believe about that..me and my husband are still young yet we can't conceive that easy unlike you..i envy you girl..that baby is a gift..keep it! the baby doesn't have a fault..GOODLUCK!!!
2006-12-14 13:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by chelsie is megan's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋