What do you do when nobody likes you and you hate your life?

Question

and you have no money and no job?

Answer 1

Well for one not everybody hates you, I don't hate you. ands when people judge you because of what material possesions you got they are hyproctics. Becasue they should remember the golden rule" Treat others how you want others to treat you". But some people think because they got a nice house, money, cars and other stuff, they think they are better than you but they are not. I wonder what they would do if they lost everything they have. And you should try and get on a welfare program until you get back on your feet. ANd don't wqorry I know 2 people like you, ME and GOD not only like you we love you.

Answer 2

I'd be surprised if nobody likes you - but if you insist then try changing your attitude, try volunteering - they'll always appreciate the help and it's a great way to show people your charitable side (always a bonus)
If you hate your life? Change it. Take control and make it into something you would like.
No money? hmmm Been there - done that, & it sucks! I'd say get a job, but you said you don't have one. Again you can make all kinds of contacts through volunteering.
Step back and take a look at your life, figure out what you do like and what you don't. Cut out the stuff you can do without.

None of this is easy - life never is.

Ideas for volunteering? Do something you like. A youth call center (hey they're calling cause they feel the same way as you do... maybe you could help) Seingnor's home or local hospital. Animal shelter or vetrenarians are always looking for dog walkers. Don't forget youth groups like Scouts Canada. And my personal favorite - your local food bank. Filling out orders and delivering them.

I hope this helps, I'm sure you're not giving yourself the credit you deserve.

Answer 3

Hello
It sounds like you are at the bottom looking up.
Instead of looking at how bad things are pick one thing and find the good in it and try to use it for your benefit. Then pick another ,another the only way is up. I know I came from dead broke to now 6 figure income.
When you say nobody likes you do you dislike your self ? Go look in the mirror and start to like that person and others will follow.
Remember Walt Disney he went broke seven times but he never gave up.
Jobs are easy one can always get a job it may not be the one you want but if want to work you can get a job and then start to work on the one you want.
So first stop with the pitty party, and put a smile on just as would get dressed and go have fun working and being alive the rest will follow.

Answer 4

Sometimes I feel the same way, then I wonder is it just my bad self-esteem, is it just me? It really does seem hard to fit in, but don't give up. Keep trying and someday, you will find your place in this world where people will accept you unconditionally. Now if I can only practice what I preach! Go to the library where you can check out books for free. Apply for a library card if you have to. Read some books on self-esteem. I did this and learned whether you are unemployed or hold an executive position, one person is no better than the other. Everyone has their own qualities and is unique. There is nobody else like you, and whatever you do in life, you have something good to offer. Don't give up, hold your head high and think positive. Best of luck to you. I know how you feel.

Answer 5

aww im sorry you feel that way :(
every now and again i feel the same exact way. trust me theres someone that likes everyone. and i dont wanna sound like a mother or anything and lecture you on and on but i hope you understand that everyone has there ups and downs. im sure you'll soon find that your life isnt that bad. sure you may not have the greatest wealth and a job that you've dreamed of but remember theres always someone else out there that has it worse than you.....maybe you dont care about that person and i get that but just try your best to be strong. no money? thats fine why not start out with a small job that can pay not much money but enough to keep you going. then save up some money (even if it takes a while) and start fresh with a new job. and about the no one liking you if your willing to come and ask for help on yahoo then im sure youre willing to make a new friend and talk to them. people WILL like you. sure they'll be some snobs here and there but if you keep your head up and try your hardest you can do it! LIFES TOUGH! we all know that but you're not someone who will fail if you just keep on TRYING. im really sorry if i just gave you a boring lecture....but i hope some how i did make a difference in your life today...and maybe you feel that no one likes you but right now I MYSELF see no reason to hate you and if it makes any difference i already think of you as a friend. good luck and let me know if you need anything else. im [e-mail].

Answer 6

First, get a job. Then the money will come at the end of the week/month. Then a colleague at work will invite you for lunch,coffee, a drink etc because you are such a smilly, go lucky kind of a person. Then you will talk with that person and feel that you like them and want to hang around them. Then you invite them out as well for a drink, coffee or lunch. There, you have a friend, a job, some money and life goes on!!!!!

Answer 7

How do you eat an Elephant? The answer of course, is one bite at a time. You don't have a job, are poor, unhappy with that situation and people sense it and keep their distance. So...
1) Get a job, better yet, get two jobs. A person working two $10/Hr jobs makes as much as a person working one $20/Hr Job. 2) You'll have some $$, and not much time to spend it, so will help get your life in order. 3) You'll be too busy to mope, will meet twice the people to make friends with since you're working two jobs. People like busy hard working people. You will start to like yourself better and so will others. Your life will get better. The harder you work, the luckier and happier you'll get. Work is our friend, and the answer to our dreams and hopes. Good Luck.

Answer 8

You stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something for others, like volunteer for Red Cross. You will soon realize that nobody wants to waste their time "hating" you, life is too short!
The confidence you gain while doing something good and meaningful will go a long way and probably help you find a job eventually.
Either that or marry some old rich dude.
lol

Answer 9

Spend your time getting to know yourself better. The closer you get to being the real you, the easier it will be to meet friends that you can truly get along with.
As for the money/job thing, figure out why you have no job now and don't make the same mistakes twice. Take any job for now, while you keep looking for a better one.
In a few years you will look back at this time in your life and it won't seem so bad. You will be stronger from getting through this.

Answer 10

Get a HUGE box of ice cream.:) Seriously? Know that you Will eventually have money anda job, and things will look up. I feel that way sometimes b/c, especially in high school, people can be very critical. Remember, most of the time, they don't mean it specificly about you, they are just insecure with themselves to the point that they have to find faults with others to make themselves feel better about their own. The thing that a lot of people don't get is, without our faults, we would all be carbon-copies and it would be horrible.About the hating your life part, life is constantly changing and, if you hate it forever, at least it won't be the same thing(s).:P