What do you do when nobody likes you and you hate your life?

Question

and you have no money and no job?

Answer 1

you need to find a way to make positive changes.

start by relaxing, letting go of your current woes, find something that puts you at ease: an image, a favorite place, favorite peaceful music. Take a nice long bath and relax. let the water carry your troubles for you for a while.

Without focusing on the immediate problems, focus on where you want to be (NOT how to get there) - what sort of life, people, friends, etc (and where). Visualize it; make it seem as real as it can be. As far away as it seems, keep that vision in your head, like a watch you can look at from time to time. Remind yourself that you deserve to reach your goal.

Next, figure out the one thing you can do to step in that direction. Take the first job you can find - even flipping burgers - while looking for something better. Keep your vision in mind in when you prepare and go to interviews; the person that you will become has more than enough strength and confidence to loan you. accept it.

once you have an income - even a small one - lproblems will seem more manageable. Save money, don't go on shopping sprees or pub binges - keep the vision in mind. To get out of the house, go to the library. Create a list of other things you need to do to reach your goal; start with small, achievable ones... like Smiling more, saving money, looking for better work, self-improvement. Little by little, the big obstacles will be overcome and the seemingly impossible things on your list will become doable.

best of luck!

Answer 2

Make some changes. The first thing to do to better your life is to get a job. It doesn't have to be a good paying job, just something until you can get a better job. People with a job are far more attractive to employers than those who are unemployed. Only work part time so you can leave time for looking and interviewing. The money and friends will follow. Most of the friends I have ever made are the ones I met at school or work. As far as hating your life- you need to change your attitude. Even if you have to fake it for a while, if you come across as being negative, that is what will come back to you. Put on your rose colored glasses and be happy damnit.

Answer 3

goodness, get some confidence in yourself,

if no one likes you then try to find out the reason why &
then if needed do some changing w/ in yourself

2nd you can find a job just about any place unless you
are looking to make lots of money when you 1st start the job, sometimes you have to start @ the bottom & work your way up, but a decent paying job is better than no job @ all

pull yourself together & go job searching ! Good luck

Answer 4

Take the proper steps to ahnge your situation, no matter how big or small they are. For example, find a few small business near you and apply to work there, preferably within walking distance of your house or apartment.

You already know what kind of clothes or styles you like right? Well, try to emulate/copy such a look with any means accessible to you.

Shop for low priced clothing. I'm not talking about t-shirts or jeans but real clothes that make you feel better about yourself.

Stay in shape. If you are not "in shape" now, that's OK. But if so, take measures to get back in shape. Run. Do sit-ups (a small number at first and gradually do more per set over time). Try doing yoga, I dunno! There are many possibilities and/or ways to get in shape.

Most importantly, you must accept the person you are. You cannot change how your complexion looks. Obviously. But if you accept that reality and play with the cards life deals you (i.e. confidence, not worrying about what others may think of you), you will go far.

Answer 5

I wouldn't want to live like that so I would create a future plan. first, get a job that pays decent, set goals like going back to school or getting my own place etc. I would do some soul searching. That simply means to me that I would probably have to figure out who I am and try to start new relationships with new people. I often cut old friends off because they could also be apart of the reason why I feel down, they are called "toxic friends". Do what you have to do, just dont give up

Answer 6

I found a new social envornment. Some people can be very detrimental on the self esteem. When money is a real issue I take whatever job I can get, so I can get into a better place. I also find someone to talk to. Sometimes it's easier to find someone online to share things with, rather than someone I know in person.
I also write poetry. Expression of emotions is a great form of release.

Answer 7

I'm sure someone likes you.

Looking for a job and getting one can be hard, but try as hard as you can to get a job, it will make you feel a lot better because it gives you something to do and makes you feel like you can do something.

Do something different with your life, try something new, or spend time on something (productive or creative) that you enjoy doing. You won't hate your life as much then.

Answer 8

There is always someone who likes you, I guarantee it. Go out and find a job. A job will introduce you to new people who will hopefully become your friends, and put money in your pocket. That covers all your problems, so you will be happy :D

Answer 9

I like you. I don't know you but I'm willing to be a friend.

You hate your life. Why? Why can't you try to like your life? This is an additude YOU need to change.

Save on money. And get a job, easier said than done, right?

Well, guess what? Life is going to be tough. And you can't give up.

So get up, get out, and get going!

Answer 10

Well, you sit down and think about a place you'd like to escape to and then you go to sleep. You wake in the morning and realize that nothing is as bad as it seems. You dust off your clothes and you go volunteer at a job you'd like to have and eventually you will get it. (That is what I did) And, I know your not going to believe me, but not everyone hates you. I always thought that, because of my family, but don't be so cynical.