2006-12-14 12:00:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Put the ball back in the boys Park and the pressure too.
Tell him that you really want to, but you promised your father that you wouldn't, but if he goes to your dad and asked him for permission to have sex with you and dad says it's OK, you'll do it. But let him know that you will verify your father's decision. Then every time he pressures you for sex, put the ball back in his park by asking him if he's talked with your dad. I guarantee he'll never talk with Dad and if he does, he deserves the mass bruises that dad will inflict. Then every time he asks just keep putting pressure back on him to talk with your dad. ( Have you talked with Dad yet? ) It worked like a charm for my daughters. Not one taker.
2006-12-14 12:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by puppets48744 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that and I imagine that you love him deeply too. If he really loved you then he would respect your decision to wait but I see so many young ladies giving in just to keep the guy and most of them come to me later telling me that they are pregnant or have an STD or even worse AIDS. Is sex really worth dying for or having an unwanted pregnancy? By you resisting tells me that you are a strong woman and that is so good to know. After the sex then what? Will he stay with you if its not what he is expecting and move on to one of your friends or will he share the experience with his boys and it gets around that you are putting out but the saddest thing of all is that you will no longer be pure and holy. Did you know that everytime a person has sex that they crusify Jesus all over again? Its true but I'm not gonna preach to you. I just want to know that I think you are very strong to say no to your man and there is nothing wrong with that. Pls, stay holy and pure for your husband and it will be worth the wait. God bless
2006-12-14 20:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he has no right to think that or try that. It's your choice and I think that you need to find out and make sure your ready to have sex with him. Personally I think you should wait until you get married but I'm not going to tell you what to do only you can decide that and if you do decide to do it make sure you use protection and it's yours and only your choice. If he's pressureing you then he's proably just with you to get some and then breaks up with you. Some guys are like that and I mean some not all. Just make sure it's not a mistake and he's not with you just to do that and then leaves you. You need to really think about it and decide for yourself.
2006-12-14 20:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go to hell! Any guy who pressures you into having sex could care less about you, he just wants to have sex. Don't do it, you'll regret it. There is a time and a place for everything, if you're feeling pressured, this is NOT the time.
2006-12-14 20:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong and make a decision based on your own personal feelings about if you want to or not. If he is pressuring you than truth be told that may be all that he wants from you. If you do decide to have sex you must make wise conscious decisions and be safe about it. Don't do it if you may regret it or your not ready. And be safe most importantly AIDS is real and it could happen so ALWAYS protect yourself first.
2006-12-14 20:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by LusciousLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Say "no, I'm not ready to have sex!"
2. Don't let him think he owns you. Otherwise he's going to keep trying.
3. Make it clear to him that you don't want to have sex, and you don't appreciate him pressuring you into it, or thinking he can hit it.
2006-12-14 20:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him and all but you are not ready and if he wants to break up with you LET HIM GO because this means that he only wants you for one thing. So if you are not ready tell him this so he will be aware of it but if he still is pressuring you you might want to leave him alone. I have not been throught this but my friend did and she told her boyfriend and he got mad and told her ok and then two weeks later she was raped so you might want to watch him and break up with him if you think this is going to happen.
2006-12-14 20:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pooh Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not ready and he has to respect that. If he loves you he'll wait. There's no rush. You should wait until you meet someone you see yourself having a future with. Not a boyfriend that might dump you once you give him what he wants.
2006-12-14 20:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. He's not after you he's after your body. If he really cared about you he would respect your wishes not to have sex. Furthermore if you do give it to him and he does dump you, you'll feel used and crappy. If you stand up for yourself you'll feel good about you and like you are really worth waiting for. There's some girls I've been with that I didn't care all I wanted was XXX.... but when I finally found the one I loved I didn't care about that so much anymore. It really felt good to have my heart thinking instead of my dick.
2006-12-14 20:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by whathappenedamber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly how old are you and secondly be strong about it and don't give in if he really dose love and respect you he will listen and wont force you to do anything you don't want. you have every right to say no and if he still keeps pushing you, you have to think about breaking up with him. just remember if you do have sex then use protection
2006-12-14 20:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋