2006-12-14 11:59:13 · 26 answers · asked by Sweatburn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That sounds like the reverse of my situation. My boyfriend would prefer me to just say get it on, and I'd prefer him to say something more romantic. Maybe we need to trade partners?
2006-12-14 12:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you can try starting the day by flirting with her, giving her along kiss, and helping her do some of the house chores, including taking care of the kids (if it applies). and calling her during the day, and keep flirting. Then when it's "bed" time, start slowly kissing her, take it easy and hopefully she won't have such a negative attitude. Acting like she's doing you a favor, doesn't feel good and doesn't contribute to the mood. Or you can take what I told you first into consideration, and talking to her about how you feel she says that, by asking her "what can I do, to make it better for you." and telling her that when she says that it hurts your feelings (women like feeling words) and you would rather she enjoy it, instead of it being a chore.
2006-12-14 20:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her what you would like her to do and how you feel when she says, "just get on with it". Making love is also about communication and if you are comfortable taking your clothes off and sleeping with this person, let alone make her your wife, you should be able to tell her anything and everything, especially if it makes you feel a certain way. Communicate, communicate, communicate.
2006-12-14 20:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by thewhalehunter12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spark her interest again.
Send the kids to a sitter for the night. Then, recreate your first date with her. Talk with her about her. Avoid talking about the kids or the house. Feel free to mix in a little wine.
Then work on seducing her like you did the first time.
2006-12-14 20:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's saying things like that she may feel like you don't care much about her when you're having sex and it's all about you. Try being more romantic with her and telling her how you feel about her and making things more about her. Just letting her know that you want her to be satisfied to will hopefully make her want you to be satisfied. Just knowing that my husband works so hard for me and wants me to be happy with our sex life makes me more attracted to him and want to please him more.
2006-12-14 20:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restrain her to the bedposts with tethers or soft cuffs. You'll be in total command, and she'll end up telling you whatever you want to hear. They're available at any adult book store.
Trust me, it sounds like she'll enjoy it for a change.
2006-12-14 20:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she says that, stop the sex and got into another room. She'll come out and ask what's wrong and tell her that saying that turns you off and makes her look unsexy. She might be mad at first, but I don't think she'll do it again.
2006-12-14 20:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LMAO...if she is saying that I (as a women) would think your sex life is too predictable. Spice it up, dont follow a routine. Instead of getting her to say something else, you say something else, do something else. Dont allow her to get bored with the sex.
2006-12-14 20:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Chasity 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should play some music or light a few candles or put rose pedals on the bed ,,,,
2006-12-14 20:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withhold sex for a while. This will make her wonder whats up and then she'll come crawling. Oh by the way, while you are at it, ask her how much she weighs. Exercise makes women horny. Especially married ones!!!
2006-12-14 20:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nile Queen 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋