married 5 years, we have a 3 year old son and a 5 year old daughter. we want to spend more time togeather.
2006-12-14 11:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have 6 and 4 year old daughters. We took up tennis together, the park has a court right next to the play structure so we can watch the kids at the same time. We spend time talking about our day without the kids in the room, we tell the kid's that we are talking about what to get them for Christmas or their Birthday and it needs to be a secret, they leave right away. We watch movies together while a kid movie plays in another room.
2006-12-14 12:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be really special if you two established a special day for you guys. Only the two of you!!!! Whatever works your schedule would be very helpful. have someone watch the kids for a few hours just that day, it could be a relative, grandparent, close friend, or a trusted babysitter. Going to dinner and a movie every fri. or sat. or in the evening of the weekday would be a good idea. And if money is tight, and you two cannot afford going out, then once a week or more! you two could put the kids to bed an hour early and watcha movie in the house together with popcorn, or just have a uiet time together where you two can reflect memories, make love, talk, or just hold eachother. I hope this helped! God Bless!
2006-12-14 12:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's wonderful that you want to spend time together. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. We don't have any kids in all but we do alot of stuff together like play video games and watch movies. We rarely have sex. My older brother and sister in law have a 9 year old daugther and a 8 year old son and they hang out all the time together and with their children. I think it's wonderful that you two want to spend more time together. I think that couples can do things together other then having sex all the time. We mostly play games together and sometimes we watch tv or movies and since our computers are on the same table together we sit next to each other do our own things on them and chat with each other once in awhile.
2006-12-14 12:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I have only been married for 4 months, and we don't have any kids, so it's easier for us. We mostly just watch our TV shows together every night and eat dinner together. It's simple, but at least we're with each other. My advice to you is hire a babysitter or a teenage relative to babysit for you and go out once a week or once a month to a movie and dinner. I think that would really help. Good luck!
2006-12-14 12:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for 7.5 yrs. Together we have 4 kids. We like skating and tobogganing. When the weather is warm we go for walks together. We also just like to pile into the van and go for a drive.
2006-12-14 12:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by thoughts_in_a_blender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up a hobby that you can do together. Hiking, traveling, shopping, cooking, dancing (like ballroom), ...
2006-12-14 11:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋