I don't know what to do, I am so worried and scared. Pregnant???

Question

My menstrual cycle lasts from approcimately 28-30 days. On the 11th of December marked the 28th today and yesterday marked the 30th. I have yet to get my period. I am so hysterically freaking out, I am about to break down :(. I know my period is a day late, but here is the situation: In early September (8th - 12th)I was with this guy, and although no sexual intercourse took place, I did get fingered and I gave him a hand job. The thing is, what if he had moist precum on his finger when he fingered me...would that get me pregnant? He never went "inside" my vagina, that's for sure. I am a virgin and told him not to because I know it hurts. I had ovulated on September 1st-2nd - so, in this case, there would have been no egg when I was with the guy, right (they last 24-48 hrs I read somewhere). I got my period 3 days after this incident and they went as follows. Sept 15, Oct 16, Nov 13 [so 3 perods in all] My question is can I still be pregnant? I am so worried.

Oh, I was also in a jacuzzi with him. What if he released semnal fluids into the water? Could that get me pregnant? (I had a swim suit on, if that makes a difference.)

I am feeling all the PMS symptoms: extremely sore breasts, tender back pain, leg cramps, etc. But no period in sight :(

Answer 1

You are not pregnant - You've had three periods since this encounter where you had a 1 in a zillion chance of getting pregnant. Your nerves could be causing your period to be a little late - it happens with a lot of people....try to calm down and (your hormones from PMS may be causing some of this anxiety) you will be fine.

Answer 2

No....just stressing over it will cause you to be late or even skip. Your cycle can be consistant, then be inconsistant with out warning. If you are a "virgin" then you have nothing to worry about. However, the behavior you described means you are not a virgin. Intercouse alone is not an indicator if virginity. You are participating in sexual activity which neans you are not a virgin...biblically speaking.

Answer 3

Once sperm hits air, it is no longer viable. So, there's really no chance that you're pregnant. For me, the symptoms of PMS usually come 2-3 days before my menstrual cycle and that's quite normal. Plus, if this happened in September, you'd be having pregnancy symptoms and a noticable tummy by now.
You're perfectly fine :)

Answer 4

I do not know your age or other cicumstances. But maybe get an EPT?? It is very doubtful from the acitivity you described that you are indeed pregnant. I, based on experiences w/ my females freinds, would venture to say the stress is delaying your cycle. Yet, I do suggest the EPT for your own piece of mind...cost is cheaper than a doctor visit and they are 99.9% accurate...best wishes to ya!!!

Answer 5

i dont think your pregnant. my period was 10 days late once. but at the same time there is a chance you could get pregnant from fingering. and if you are about 3 months pregnant then you probably would know by now. but if you are good luck

Answer 6

I doubt that you are pregnant. You could be tricking yourself into having these symptoms but to ease your mind why don't you take a test to see. But as I stated I don't think you are pregnant Good luck to you

Answer 7

No you're not pregnant. You're late, take a test and chill out.

You can skip for any reason what so ever, it doesnt make you pregnant, especially in this situation.

Answer 8

ABSTINENCE is the only answer'

its oviously to late now, with your actions come concequences

Answer 9

you can't get pregnant from "moist pre-***", that i've heard. since you're wiggin' so badly, you should probably take a break from intercourse. if you're a virgin, you shouldn't be able to get any sperm past your hymen (cherry).

Answer 10

0% chance, based on your description. I REALLY hoped you drained the jaccuzi.