My menstrual cycle lasts from approcimately 28-30 days. On the 11th of December marked the 28th today and yesterday marked the 30th. I have yet to get my period. I am so hysterically freaking out, I am about to break down :(. I know my period is a day late, but here is the situation: In early September (8th - 12th)I was with this guy, and although no sexual intercourse took place, I did get fingered and I gave him a hand job. The thing is, what if he had moist precum on his finger when he fingered me...would that get me pregnant? He never went "inside" my vagina, that's for sure. I am a virgin and told him not to because I know it hurts. I had ovulated on September 1st-2nd - so, in this case, there would have been no egg when I was with the guy, right (they last 24-48 hrs I read somewhere). I got my period 3 days after this incident and they went as follows. Sept 15, Oct 16, Nov 13 [so 3 perods in all] My question is can I still be pregnant? I am so worried.
2006-12-14 11:23:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Oh, I was also in a jacuzzi with him. What if he released semnal fluids into the water? Could that get me pregnant? (I had a swim suit on, if that makes a difference.)
I am feeling all the PMS symptoms: extremely sore breasts, tender back pain, leg cramps, etc. But no period in sight :(
2006-12-14 11:25:42 · update #1
Well, there honestly could be a very small chance that you are, if he touched the rim of the vagina. You are stressing out a lot and that also can cause your period to come later than usual. Wait about a week, and if you still have not gotten your period, go get a home pregnancy test. If that shows up negative, and you still haven't gotten your period, go get a blood test done from the doctor. (If you are afraid of going to the doctors you can also visit a planned parenthood.) I hope this helps.
2006-12-14 11:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by toonlink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, take a DEEP breath. Stressing out and being all crazy is only going to delay your period more!
If you were in a jacuzzi, chances are those little swimmers were probably boiled LONG before they could get anywhere near you.
Secondly, if you've had bleeding on several occasions, I would nearly definitively have to answer NO to the pregnancy question.
The bottom line is this: Go to the store and get a HPT. Take the test tomorrow morning (1st morning urine is the best, no matter WHAT the box says), and you'll have a good idea of what your status is.
Chances are, you'll take the test, and get your period because you'll know for sure and won't be stressing anymore!
Oh, one more piece of advice: Even if you ARE a virgin now, you won't be forever...this I promise. Either think about getting some birth control YOU control or carry a condom with you...OR don't participate in risky behavior.
2006-12-14 11:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not pregnant. You have had 3 periods since then. What is causing your period to be late is the stress you are having over this. Stress can cause it to be late or even in my case sometimes early. Get a pregnancy test if you are concerned but I think it will be a waste of money.
2006-12-14 11:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've seen articles of "virgins" becoming pregnant from petting (extremely rare), but in your case, 3 consecutive periods... No. Sperm die quickly once they are released. Theres actually a chart somewhere that shows peak fertility in a woman, and it IS possible to get pregnant outside of a "2 day window". But, If you need reassurance, get an EPT or go to family planning.
2006-12-14 11:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Gregman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NO way you are pregnant!! You cannot get pregnant by being in a juccuzi with a guy.. That's an urban legend. And you said he fingered you, but didn't go inside... i dont think it would be possible even if he DID go in with his finger w/ precum on it.. SO.. dont worry...
2006-12-14 11:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chef Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO way. YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT . you said u have leg cramps may be because of the delay of your periods . as far as i know you r going to get periods preity soon. so relax . one sugession- no matter what you are doing always use protection . by doing this you dont have to worry every month. you said your bf was using fingers. so it can give you infections too.. be careful next time
2006-12-14 11:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by reva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but not likely at all.
Plus, that was way back in September, if that were the case, you would've been having symptoms sooner than now.
Your period hasn't probably come because you're stressed out.
2006-12-14 11:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not pregnant. It would be a miracle if you were.
Stop stressing about it. Stress can cause hormonal changes which affect your period.
Seriously, you are not pregnant.
I hope his hands were clean when you guys did your thing...you could have an infection. Maybe you should check that out.
2006-12-14 11:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
chill the **** down darlin honestly i doubt very much that you are pregnant. you have had 3 periods since then and you are only a day late. ur probably late coz ur stressing about it so much. if your stressed or going through difficult times or things like that it can delay ur period.
2006-12-14 11:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by tamzynsian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are so worried then go to the store and get a test. it is highly doubtful that you are pregnant if you had three periods in a row. although my mom had five periods when she was pregnant . just get a test and trust whatever it says..
2006-12-14 11:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by hey.goodlookin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋