Just because I say I still have feelling for my ex doesn't mean that I am willing to hurt my husband that i love that is why i just told you guys because i needed to tell someone.
2006-12-14 10:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by gigi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People can be cruel at times. I also still have strong feelings for my first love. Don't worry about it. And good for you for focusing on your husband,
2006-12-14 15:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 8 years and I still have some feelings for my first love 14 years ago and I don't think you are crazy!!! This person will always hold a special place in your heart and there is nothing wrong with it! Just don't tell your man some things are better left unsaid.
2006-12-14 10:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so okay. Let me tell you: I still have dreams about my childhood sweetheart, the one who took my virginity more than 20 years ago. We were together for five years. Why would you ever forget that first love? We're not light switches where you can just turn off a feeling, especially a strong one. Even if it was a long time ago. Soooo, you are just fine and it has absolutely nothing to do with your feelings for your hubby.
2006-12-14 12:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always will have a special place in your heart for the first love. that is normal....It was the first time you felt the butterlies. the excitement and the craziness that a relationship holds... It should be a fond memory tucked away in your heart, but not somethiing you should share with anyone else.
You have feelings, but not of love, it is more like a calm,warm sensation that fills your heart and makes you smile... It is not love....or feelings.....it is memories....
2006-12-14 10:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because no one knows the extent of the "feelings", and people automatically assume the worst. However, "feelings" can take different forms, it does't necessarily mean you are madly in love or obsessed with your former flame. There's nothing wrong with remembering and acknowledging your past - but it is also healthy to move on, and for the past to fade eventually.
2006-12-14 11:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! That's crazy! Of course you're going to retain feelings for your 'first love'! That's a very very special relationship. Maybe your husband is just a jealous guy...
2006-12-14 10:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we all special memories connecting to the ones we love. Ur first love is apart of u forever no matter what. its Ur memory.......not ur husband's. ur not crazy. ur heart is remembering the past. everything u felt before ur husband. rite now it will be just a faze because u will catch up with reality and remember y u love ur husband.
2006-12-14 10:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Panictwilight18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always harbor feelings for your first love. It was a very special and significant relationship. It's very normal to still have a special place for him in your heart.
2006-12-14 10:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most women are crazy - why do you think most guys on death row have women that want to marry them - you might still want to do your ex
2006-12-14 10:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's good because the feelings you have for your ex are for the person he used to be...and that is not likely to be the person he is today....it is a fantasy and fantasy is good as long as you know that's what it is.....
2006-12-14 10:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋