There's nothing I can do about this problem called: Bulimia?

Question

Hey, Remember me...I'm the girl who makes herself puke her food up...ok look I have came up with a conclusion, over these last 2 weeks I have relized I have any eating disorder called Bulimia..and there's nothing I can do to stop myself anymore, it has gotten way to outta control...So now how do I hide it from my mom,dad,boyfriend,friends, and family...especially my boyfriend...

How do I hide my Bulimia?

Answer 1

You don't, you get help. I really hope you aren't serious because what you have is a deadly disease. I had a variety of eating disorders over the years and I never felt good about myself and I'm so glad I finally got help. Yeah, I weigh more than I feel is healthy for my body, but I look healthy and that's all that matters. Tell you parents, your friends, your boyfriend that you hate yourself, you hate your body and you feel like you need help. Yeah you may spend a few days in the hospital but you will only get better. The best part about is that you'll love yourself again.

Answer 2

Don't hide it.

Your brain is not functioning properly and needs fixing.

Your brain has started a bad habit of thinking that the opinions other people have about you is more important than anything else.

It is not your fault that your brain has been programed by advertising and other people around you to be this way.

Get mad that your going to be going through a lot of suffering so that beauty companies can make money.

Get mad at anyone who makes you feel embarrassed about having a medical problem, as if they don't have problems of their own.

Find counseling and a support group and join a cause that is bigger than yourself. Double points if you get involved with helping other people with eating disorders, because then you might meet a nice doctor who will buy you a big house.

Answer 3

There are places to help you. But it's inside YOU to try and help yourself. You talk like there's absolutely nothing you can do, like you don't control your body. Well, sister you DO!! Only YOU can help yourself climb out of this habit and you only THINK you need to purge when you're done. Maybe start by not feeling so guilty when you're done eating. Like eat something healthy, really healthy and stay away from the greasy foods that make you feel really horrible about what you just ate. Don't think about calories and carbs so much because it will only make you have the urge to purge. You can do it, all you need is support. If your friends are any kind of friends, they won't judge you when you tell them about your problems, and their image of you won't change, and they'll do all they can to help you out (trust me. I know.). As for mom and dad, well honey, they're gonna find out. and i'm not gonna lie, it will be tough. Mom's worried, and dad doesn't know how to help. Both think it is their fault. But they'll get over that initial beginning shock and help you as needed. Good luck, and don't worry. everything will be ok!! Love.

Answer 4

Not only does it damage your body inside, it can also damage your teeth. The acid that is in the throw up when you regurgitate eats away at the linings in your organs, and eats away at the enamel on your teeth. If it truly has gotten out of control (which you have already admitted) the next step is to talk to your family. That's what they are there for and you will need to go through some sort of program to help you out. I hope for the best, and don't do this to your body anymore.

Answer 5

You can hide bulimia by not doing the obvious, don't run to the bathroom after meals, don't let people hear you vomit, don't tell others how ugly/fat/whatever you feel. Even though bulimia is your best friend now, please believe me that you will be caught eventually. I experienced chest pains and have chronic esophageal problems, not to mention the osteoperosis that is so likely if you start young. Please just ask for help - nobody can tell your parents, go to a free clinic and seek counseling before you destroy your body.

Answer 6

I can understand you feel totally helpless against this Disease you have now. i was there..i know all about the feelings of helpless You tell yourself, ok..this is the day i will not do it..but, you can't control it .You feel overwhelmed with it all..before you know it..what your doing won't be enough of a release for you. You might start to take laxatives..duirtics..diet pills..plus all the binging you can do in day. The cycle continues,, you get better at disguising what your douing..better at purging...
It is the most scary thing I have ever done..to be so out of control I felt as if food was the evil monster always winning over me. Hun, trust me..you CAN get help for it. You can work thru this..there are many organizations that can help you. I was in the hospital in the psychiatric ward for 3 months to help me..then after I was released, i had intense persona;l therapy for a few years. Yes..it was alot of work..more than I care to think about...but, it did help me. Food was not the issue for me...it what was eating me inside that was killing me. Repressed anger, sadness..many things that i released thru binging and purging. for you , it could be the same..or maybe it is the pressure of being thin..many things that can be the basis for an eating disorder. (plus, binging and puring puts you in a "high"..you get all anxious from eating..then, a total release..somewhat like a fantastic orgasm when you purge..very addicting to go thru)
Please get yourself some help..go to your Dr..tell him/her what you are doi9ng..You have no idea the damage you are doing to yourself right now. And yes..it is totally worth it to heal yourself inside . You CAN Beat this!!!!..I promise you that.
http://www.mamashealth.com/bulimia.asp

Answer 7

You don't hide it you tell them and ask to see a doctor. It can be helped with treatment. Do you know all the problems it can cause you physically? Besides rotting your teeth out of your head it gives you bad breath. It also can cause heart problems.
There are plenty more and then there is the big one DEATH!
Do your research and find out what it does to your body and get help. There are support groups for this and doctors that can help. Please tell your parents and ask for help. I'm sure they will help you get help.
Type Side effects of bulemia in yahoo and you will find lots of sights about the problems it causes and help also. Good Luck. And don't hide it for your own sake.

Answer 8

You cant hide it for very long, it's going to come out and you have to be ready for the reactions, but you can fix that problem by calling support groups and fixing what ever made you start, that's the only ways you are going to continue to stay healthy or you will look very deformed if you stay this way.

Hope i can help!!!

Answer 9

possibly it truly is her way of being concerned. It sounds slightly loopy yet she ought to experience scared for you and ought to imagine that if she ignores the issue, this is going to bypass away, or that you're feeling you could deal with it more advantageous suited on your human being because you've not requested for help. She may also only not have any theory a thanks to assist. out of your attitude, she seems heartless, yet imagine of what she must be feeling. If someone on the point of you replaced into doing that and also you knew, what ought to you're saying to them? it must be troublesome to furnish help in this difficulty without offending them. She ought to have concept that if she suggested it to then you definitely you truly ought to get protective and ought to push her extra away. this is troublesome to appreciate how persons imagine and experience. possibly you should attempt being more advantageous open including her, and in turn she will comprehend how a lot you think her and could grant her help. tell her you want her help and also you'll opt for to talk about issues. Ask her what she thinks you should do to style it out, and if she will bypass with you for your GP, etc.

Answer 10

no come on dont do this to yourself!!! you can control this , and you CAN'T hide this . i really know you dont want to tell anybody, but this is a horrible issue and cannot be ignored! please tell somebody!!! it could turn horrible, you are eating up your lining in your body of the intestines, rotting your teeth, even if you brush them , and its NOT healthy for you AT ALL. this is a serious eating disorder and can be deadly if not paid attention to. TELL SOMEONEE1!!