Mother-In-law= Spawn of Satan!!!!?

Question

Ok, this ***** may be the reason why I go to jail tonight. Someone please HELP!!!! I have been with my hubby for two years. When it comes to his mother he has the balls of a 9 year old. He is very close to her, so she is never out of our lives. She totally disrespects me and he acts as if it is nothing. She watched my 1 month old daughter ONCE and fed her applesauce. I almost died. She is like allergic to everything. He says well my ma raised 3 kids so I trust her judgement. I come second to her always. He goes to her house everyday after work and then comes home. I told him that he can't live with two families. I feel like a freakin mistress and it hurts. His ma is the most uneducated, ill-manored person I ever met and talking to her is like talking to a child and she's 62. I don't know what to do, I love him but the more he defends her I feel like I care for him and respect him less. I am definately on the verge of divorcing the only man whose ever treated me like a queen

Answer 1

In ancient Jewish tradition Satan is simply an angel doing the work that God assigned to Satan to do.

The word Satan means challenger. With the idea of Satan challenging us, or tempting if you will. This description sees Satan as the angel who is the embodiment of man's challenges. This idea of Satan works closely with God as an integral part of Gods plan for us. His job is to make choosing good over evil enough of a challenge so that it becomes clear to us that there can be only one meaningful or logical choice.

Contrast this to Christianity, which sees Satan as God's opponent. In Jewish thought, the idea that there exists anything capable of setting itself up as God's opponent would be considered polytheistic or setting up the devil to be an equally powerful polarity to god or a demigod.

Oddly, proof for The Christian satan/devil mythology is supposedly found in the ancient Jewish texts that were borrowed to create the bible. One can’t help but wonder how Christians came up with such a fantastically different interpretation of Gods assistant Satan in their theology.

Other hints about Satan’s role in human relations can be seen if you look at the name Lucifer. It’s meaning in the original tongue translates as Light bearer or light bringer. Essentially the bringer of enlightenment. The temptations of the Satan idea bring all of us eventually into Gods light. Hardly the Evil entity of Christian mythology.

Love and blessings
don

Answer 2

This isn't a in-law problem, it's a marriage problem. How could you marry the guy without knowing he's a Momma's boy? Did you just ignore warning signs? Like, Mommy picking his clothes, cutting his meat, and tucking him in every night? Didn't his PJ'S with footies tip you off? You married a guy still attached to Mommy's apron strings. He is what he is.l I doubt you can change him. Either put up with marriage to a man-boy, or get a divorce. By the way, ANY woman that would feed a month old infant applesauce is brain dead.

Answer 3

I don't know if this will help you, but the Bible says:

Matthew 19:5
For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

So, leave and cleave is what it means. He sounds very immature and hasn't left his mother, yet. By the way, this is a sign that she was controlling, and babied him.

Don't call her Satan, though, because she isn't; however, she has a domination problem, and a severe insecurity problem if she is feeding your baby without your permission. Could be that she is trying to make up what she messed up with her own children.

He is probably a country-boy, because most country-boys never grow up and are always crazy about their mothers...... I know, I am married to the same kind of person

Answer 4

GIRL, put your foot down or up his ***
Let him know that you want a man, not a boy. Have a serious heart to heart with him, let him know how you feel. Ask him doesn't he want to live with him mama perminately.

if that doesn't work, you have to take it to the source. you need to talk to his mama. Don't be rude or disrespectful, just let her no IN A NICE WAY, that you are taking your man back. Thank her for raising someone that you can love, but allow you to do that. Ask her would she like to be the reason her husband's marriage failed.

Stand up, say what you feel

Answer 5

man, that's a hard one. he really needs to grow up and for some reason he can't break his ties with his mom. he needs to realize that he is a man now with a family of his own. does he have a dad? does he feel he needs to take care of her for some reason. i guess it will be hard but just try to get along with her the best you can and don't let her watch the baby because who knows what she'll give the poor thing next. better safe than sorry when it comes to the little one. good luck.

Answer 6

Wow, I feel bad for you. When a man gets married, from that point on, his wife is supposed to come FIRST. Yes, his mother will always be his mother, but you're his wife, and should be first and foremost in his life. Maybe you two should go to marriage counseling, a third party's voice might make him realize how he's treating you.

Answer 7

She don't want to give up her son. If your legally married your husband is a wipe. He in the wrong. maybe he feels he needs to make sure she gots want she needs before he comes home. tell him he could call her.you married a mommy's boy. you can't tell me you didn't know this before you got married? and if you did and am sure you did, mommy boys don't happen over night. you knew and went head in marry him anyway. now you don't like it. to bad. suck it up. you knew. you can't buy a dress from a store in take it back if the tag Say's buy as is. your stuck with it. you have that child to raise with him. instead of fighting with him help him. the next time he walks though the door coming back from moms ask him how was hes visit? do things like that even though you don't like it, suck it up. just maybe he will see the difference in you and maybe he will surprise you and come home to you first. You need to leave little notes around i love u and about wife and husbands and read with him ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger.

Answer 8

Girl I feel for you my soon to be ex mom-in-law is satans bride... She is very racist and always let me know because I am mixed that I couldn't possibly be a good mom she totally made my life hell!! So I think its time for you to do what I did and start kicking some @ss and taking numbers. Put your foot down. Good Luck and you can email me if you want any advice about it or to vent.

Answer 9

you need to tell him that it is either his mama or you he cannot live two lives . He has to make a choice and cut down on his visits with his mama . His mama sounds like she is used to getting her way with him and that will continue unless you do something about it and if it takes confronting mama then so be it you tell her that you are cleaning house . i did this once and got accused of going crazy on her and him . Finanlly ended up divorcing their family altogether . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.

Answer 10

You are very fortunate to have a man that treats you like a queen. Remember you married him, not you mother in law.