Hey Martin! A gift for you! Well, I really don't know if I should say on the card, that I like u! But whatever! Well, its almost winter break if I say i like u on the card it gives you 2 weeks to think about me whether you like me or not! Well, so now u know i like u. T...h...i..n...k........ ^_^ A gift which is more than just for christmas, but for a heart poured out to be thought of, for a lifetime.
That is what I wrote on the card to my crush! I gave him a psp case! I took the bus home and saw one of his friends he told me that Martin show everyone the card!
I really don't know if I should go to school tommorow because of that! Why did he do that !
His friend said he show it to people but did not say anything!
I feel really hurt! :( Boys and Girls I need some help!
2006-12-14 09:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I am 15 years old and he is 16 years old! I am not mad at him I am hurt!
2006-12-14 10:04:14 · update #1
One thing you should know is that most guys are ignorant about girls and their feelings. Most, especially when still in Junior High or High School, don't understand girls and never fully will.
In the case of love and romance, guys usually have to screw-up in order to realize their stupid mistakes.
I don't know how old you are but you seem somewhat young. Just know that girls tend to mature much faster then boys...especially early on. Just hang in there. There are tons of guys out there and eventually you will find the right one.
Go to school and witness the stupidity of the male species. :)
2006-12-14 09:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by furiousfoe 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well your last line is a bit scary. "A gift which is more than just for christmas, but for a heart poured out to be thought of, for a lifetime."
At your age he probably loved the thought of getting a gift for christmas from a girl that is attracted to him but your last line implies that if he keeps the gift he has to remember you forever and maybe even think of you as a wife. You just jumped way past the fun friend date area.
That was a bit rude on your part. If he doesn't approach you tomorrow, give him his space. Don't give him looks or stares as if he owes you something. After time he'll just shrug off the insanity of the last line and probably convert back to flattered. If you start staring at him and stuff he'll probably think you're some sort of stalker or something.
Good luck and definitely go in to school tomorrow. There's only one more day till break and at most you'll only have to see him for one class. Main thing about being an adult, sometimes you have to do things that are way uncomfortable anyways.
2006-12-14 18:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me guess you're in high school? or junior high perhaps? come on....u learn later on in life to stop being so paranoid about these things. BE CONFIDENT! you did a very courageous thing. And boys are jerks when they are young. If he did that then i would say he really isn't into you. go to school. act like you don't care and find someone else to have a crush on. I am sure deep down he thought that was very nice of you, but also cause what you wrote was really more sappy and sweet, and only guys think that way when they think they are in love with a girl....meaning he doesn't think that way about u...nor did he need 2 weeks to think it over....i am sure he knew that second. sorry girl
2006-12-14 17:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by michelle b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One does not really understand the motives of boys. There could be a number of reasons.He could like you and it was his way ofshowing that he lokes you in a strange kind of way. Boys are immature. You could try having it out with him aas to why he showed your card to all. i would go go to school and not worryabout what peoplethink. People will soon forget as it is the end of term and be caught up in Christmas festivities.
2006-12-14 17:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys are stupid. im sorry ive had the same thing done to me. go to school tommorow. i know its hard and that you feel bad but be confident. if he is really that immature or spreads stuff so easily do you really want to be with this guy. Bottom line. Go to school.Be confident. And that will show him what a jerk he has been. But just for tonight try to call a friend. Or go for a run around your neighbor hood and then take a bubble bath! =]
2006-12-14 17:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by cutegiggles2004 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is just what little boys do.
Don't worry everyone will forget about it in a couple of days.
If anyone gives you a rough time about it say that he made it up and wrote the card him self.
It will serve him right for what he did.
Don
2006-12-14 17:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should go to school and act like you normally do. Guys at what I guess to be your age are weird about things like that. Just continue to act confident. What a bold move! Way to have pride in yourself, girl.
2006-12-14 17:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to school, and just pretend nothing happened. If someone mentions it--just laugh and say, ''I really fooled him, didn't I?'' Say no more----just hint that you might have been kidding him.
He sounds like about an 8th grader-he will grow up someday.
2006-12-14 17:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Shossi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him about it, but think about it this way.
If you guys end up going out, people will find out, this time they just happened to find out sooner. He was immature to act in that wasy in the first place, anyways.
Go to school, definitely!
2006-12-14 17:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before you gave the card. Go to school.
2006-12-14 17:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋