He is 19 years older than me, I am 22. I am scared because he is the only man I dated in my state. I just don't want to let down my guade yet until I know he is the one. I don't have any kids, never been marry. I just want to be with someone who really care about me.
2006-12-14 09:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
19 yrs!! I can tell you right now he more than likely isnt the right one for you.
Girl, you are going to go through alot of changes from now to the age of 26.Your ideas and feelings are going to change and how you view alot of things in life are also going to change.Your not going to be any different than anyone else so dont even try to kid yourself or anyone else and say no you wont.
When you get more independent and end up spending 4 years of your life with a man 19yrs your elder, hes gonna be done enjoying things that you just began.he's not the one! go venture into hanging with those more your age. you will find "the one" eventually.
2006-12-14 09:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a guy 41 dating a girl 22 is probably only interested in sex. Do you guys really have much in common? Please don't try and force a square peg in a round hole. He is 41, if he wanted to have kids with you, marry you etc, he would have told you that by now. You sound like a serious, thoughtful person. At 22 years old you understand there is no greater goal than to have kids and provide them a good family life. Dont try and do that with someone who does not place the importance you do on that very special goal, and dream. Kids deserve more than that. Lfe is hard enough for kids without having babies with someone who does not cherish the idea of family as you do. You are 22, if he is not the one there are millions out there who may be. Never settle. God Bless you.
2006-12-14 17:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He is the one for you HE will persue YOU - HE will know if you are the one right for HIM.. sorry the MAN initiates and the woman responds - I'm not trying to be difficult here, but the MAN CHOOSES THE WOMAN not the other way around. It's just how things are, why do you think it wouldn't be that way - the MAN is the HEAD of HIS HOUSE. HE chooses HIS OWN WIFE. and I chose my wife and she was the one for me. I didn't find the right one for a long time and when the right one came alone I KNEW, but unfortunately she's dead and she's gone, but she was perfect for me and we had a great marriage. If you are the one - He'll know. He'll know before you will. You'll know - but HE'll know first. It's just how things are. Like it or not.
It's how we were made and it's just life.
2006-12-14 17:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a 19-year age difference, I think what you have is a sugar daddy, not a relationship. Work it as long as it's good for you, and then move on to an adult relationship with someone a little nearer your own age.
2006-12-14 17:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, when in doubt
1/2 plus seven on the age question
2006-12-14 17:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may think im crazy but pray about it or ask him to do something you never asked him
2006-12-14 17:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋