we are planning to get married in the future. Do you think its okay to have a baby first and then get married?
2006-12-14 09:19:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
no! get married first!
2006-12-14 09:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by lala89 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 23:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he think having a baby is more important than being married? Would you want to be raised by only one parent? If you can't make a serious commitment to each other they you are not ready to have a child together.
2006-12-14 09:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to make a lifetime commitment to one another by becoming parents, why not get married first? personally I'm against anyone TTC before marriage. I think it's wrong. Children deserve a real family.
2006-12-14 09:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by LaLa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first and foremost, and then get married and then have a baby, if he can make a commiment to you and that baby he can marry you first. Good Luck
2006-12-14 11:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kendra M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i would say get married first, think about how much less drama and stress you'll have if you're out of school and already married and stable before you have a baby. i would definitely put some serious thought into it before i decided anything.
2006-12-14 09:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get married first, whats the big rush? Do it the right way.
2006-12-14 10:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get married first.
2006-12-14 09:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my partener and I decided to spend our savings on a house down payment instead of a wedding.
Babies like a place to live much more than a piece of paper, in fact I don't think babies care about pieces of paper at all...
2006-12-14 09:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
it's completely up to you, how do you feel about it? My only advice is definitely wait until you're finished with school and working steadily.... babies are expensive!!
2006-12-14 17:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by witch_girl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋