i am bisexual and can't seem to get the guys attention enough to ask me out.
i am not butch acting , i am not ugly ! i have no problems when it comes to the girls but i am having problems with dates an guys. maybe they have raidar on or something? what am i doing wrong or what could i do right? some of my girl friends say i should go to 100% les. , but i do like both.
2006-12-14 08:44:52 · 15 answers · asked by Gayisha 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't know you to know what you are doing wrong. flirt more an give out more signals that you are interested in them. if you like both men an women , then you shouldn't change because your friends say to change. just be more agressive towards the men an they will get the hint. good luck!+
2006-12-14 10:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't listen to your friends who tell you to go 100%. They're just jealous and also just want to get into your pants... the greedy bit##es.
Second, It might be the crowd you come in with. For instance, you cant go clubbing to get guys when you let every guy in the place see you make a meal out of one of your girlfriends. That kind of ruins the mood... ya know.
Third, I don't know what you look like so I cant really make an assumption to if your butchy looking or whatever... so Ill tell you this... be more aggressive in a feminine way... throw your hair around and cup a guy by the balls, that gets my attention at clubs.
Or dance nasty in front of a guy, that works well also.
2006-12-15 03:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are showing intrest to the girls more than you realize.
2006-12-14 18:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should let them know....then they will for sure want to go out with you. If only for the chance of a threesome!
2006-12-14 16:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by bonbliss@sbcglobal.net 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
if you are pretty, then guys are just too intimidated to ask you out. you could always ask a guy you are attracted to out first. i am sure he would be flattered.
2006-12-14 17:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by DoubleD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not that exciting to them
2006-12-15 10:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, ask them out. Why wait around for them to ask you?
2006-12-14 16:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by saopaco 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well that may be merely coincidence..i believe it's got nothing to do with your sexual orientation..it's simply chance...
PS:tell us how it ended up too, i got curious about the rest of your story:)
2006-12-14 16:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be direct with a guy who appeals to you.
2006-12-14 16:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by anirbas 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe they think you don't like guys.
2006-12-14 16:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋