2006-12-14 08:43:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I assume you mean heterosexual intercourse (despite the fact you posted under the LGBT category). If that's the case, it isn't as painful once a woman loses her hymen. Have your male partnter take it slow and easy at first and direct him based on your sensitivity. If he can't slow down or be sensitive to your pain, you're with the wrong guy. If it's always painful, see a doctor - could be a sign of something serious.
2006-12-14 08:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Schvantz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and passion exceed the limited brain capacity...? Men can´t help it, the women can´t help it. One has to follow his instincts. I guess the women too. You have some sort of sexual life too, i think. Maybe not the same path as everyone else, but none the less. And basically you can´t have kids without sex, and i think kids are great. Go figure... Of course, the first time didn´t hurt me very much. :-)
2006-12-14 08:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Goswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman in some parts of Africa get their clotoris cut off and vaginal lips sewn up to make sex painful and they still have it.
My first time only hurt for 3 minutes. The next 2 minutes were fine.
2006-12-14 09:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it will generally feel good every other time. Some women don't feel any pain at all when they lose their virginity- I didn't.
Shots hurt pretty badly, but you know, not having polio feels good enough to make up for it.
2006-12-14 08:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it only hurts the first time
2006-12-14 08:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by miladybc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we're stupid, lol! And that being with a woman is much more softer and gentlier than having sex with a guy! For the guy's it's all about getting off without having to be connected emotionally with women!
2006-12-14 08:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by One Hand One Heart 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because it feels so good all the other times!
And what's a little pain compared to a lifetime of pleasure?
2006-12-14 08:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets way way better! You can't expect the first time to be great- most ppl have no idea what they are doing- it all comes with experience.
2006-12-14 09:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by NadiaJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because eventually it's fun. Got to start somewhere. If you fall off the horse, get back on.
2006-12-14 09:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by myguitarisnamedjamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the womens defense, some man talks them into it and once they went so far he has her convinced he couldn't stop.
But the time she knows what happened it is over.
While she is in pain some guy says that wasn't so bad was it.
brain washing!
2006-12-14 08:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋