Is there such thing as not being "a phone person"? everytime I ask him whats the deal, he always respond that he is really busy and such. SHould I believe this? In person, we are fine, but there is no phone communication.
Secondly, I have deep feelings for this guy and he doesn't seem to want to do anything with his life. He is 22 years old and is literally "sitting his ***" on a mere high school diploma. Myself, on the other hand, am currently pursuing my Bachelors degree in Sociology. I try to motivate him, but it doesn't seem to work. Tell me, men...is it worth it? Should I find a guy that is more financially and educationally secure(or atleast trying to be)? Do relationships really have boundaries? Secondly, men, if you really liked a girl would you go days(even weeks) w/o calling her unless she called you? I know it seems childish but this **** is starting to get really annoying.
2006-12-14 08:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by EmpreSS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guys act how they feel. If he's not calling that means he doesnt want to call you. Maybe he isn't a phone person, but if he's not your boyfriend and youre not actually in a real relationship you can't really nag him about it.
2006-12-14 08:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by ohbabyohbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two reasons why the guy wouldn't call. 1. Not interested 2. Playing games or just flaky personality. So either way, you lose. If you're highly motivated and he's not then you'll run into problems in the long run. Obvioulsy you are already having problems with him. I always say that in order for relationship to work you must share same values and morals. Motivation and drives is one of the values. It'll be difficult for you to keep up this relationship. Any relationship shouldn't be painstaking but it should be fun and vibrant, not always but most of times it should. Find someone else who is more compatible to your energy. P.S. Most guys are not phone person, like me. But that doesn't mean I dont' call. It just means I dont' like to talk on the phone for a long time. I cut to the chase about why I called and make plans with the girl then hang up. But I do call especially I like the girl.
2006-12-14 08:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you girl! Also, stop trying to justify why he's acting that way. The truth is, he's not feeling you. Plus, yall not on the same page anyway.
2006-12-14 08:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont do this to yourself, he obviously has you on a schedule and thats your fucky fucky time for him, unless your actually going out on dates or something like that, but him not calling means he either works like a slave or he has multiple relationships going on
2006-12-14 08:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to find a man that is decent who is educated and who will call you
2006-12-14 08:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you are Plan B
2006-12-14 08:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that into you.
2006-12-14 08:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋