pregnant and one of my friends called to ask me. I told her I was not and someone lied. So she and I hung out this weekend and she said mean stuff like - "all I could think about was being there for you - cause he wouldnt be". That really hurt my feelings and I just looked at her like WHAT?
She constantly throws in my face what her and her man are doing and how special he is to her and then asks why do I love my boyfriend? Why do I stay with him?
What would you do? I love my bf - no he's not perfect.
She is not the only one, my other friend I went on vacation with her this summer with her whole family my bro and his gf and his gf and my friend are family.
She said my bf could not come and the answer was no.
Then this week she asked me to ask him to come to a Christmas party. Last time I did this she introduced him to a girl who he started hanging out with a lot. He was not interested in her but - still hurt my feelings.
Why do my friends do me this way and what do I do?
2006-12-14 08:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell them straight up, respect me and my boy. If they don't, get new friends. Seriously, that's just cold. Unless he's some sort of addict, abuser, player, or jerk, they have no reason to do this. Well, even if he was, they should've confronted you instead of needly manipulation.
2006-12-14 08:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are not your friends. friends would never ever do that to you and they would never ever make you feel bad . they might give advice or even tell you sometimes about the things your bf does . but they should respect you and when y'all went on vacation and your friend did not want your bf you should not have went . and for the friend that hooked him up with someone else she really is not your friend. you need to really figure out what a true friend is because it sounds like you don't have any. lol
2006-12-14 08:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some new friends. A real friend respects your feelings even if they do think you're making a mistake. Try getting to know some of your boyfriend's friend's girlfriends.
2006-12-14 08:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they don't sound like friends to me.
It sounds to me like they are jealous of what you and him have.
I would let them know that they need to mind their own business and stay out of yours.
And if they were true friends they would be behind you no matter what.
2006-12-14 08:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell them 2 back off. he's ur boyfriend and he's urbusiness not theirs. if they really were your friends they would support and appreciate your bf. i'm not sayin stop being friends with them but you should talk to them about it.
2006-12-14 08:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by tezzynia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because maybe they know something about him that you don't and they are trying to tell you that he's not good for you.
2006-12-14 08:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by q_tee262003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 08:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, listen to your friends. get some self respect. why do you think you can't do any better?
2006-12-14 08:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sorta friends are they if they treat you like crap.
2006-12-14 08:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tennis_Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋