we went out for 10 months and we broke up like 3 weeks ago and now shes being such a slut with alot of people it concerns me alot i'm worried about her
2006-12-14 07:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica_27 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok guys i was never married or in a relationship with a guy since 1 2 years ago but anyways we broke up because she wanted to be friends and i don't know why???
2006-12-14 08:08:46 · update #1
oh and she's still in to girls *****!!(pinky what ever the ****)
2006-12-14 08:11:23 · update #2
One day at a time hon. I know, I know...HOW!!! Stick with friends, stick with hobbies, stick with your studies, avoid your usual hangouts with her.
Realize the TRUTH about her and not the fantesy. If she is being a s.lut (I'm assumming thats the stared out part) there is nothing you can do but separate or let her know that as someone who cares about her, she could do a lot better than just sleeping around.
Good luck and don't spend too much alone time with yourself.
2006-12-14 08:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to bite the bullet here and accept that you may never know why she dumped you and you have no say over her behavior anymore. There is nothing sadder then a jealous ex who masks their own issues in concern over their former partner.... everyone can see right through that. You're not concerned about her slutting it up, you're just upset that she's not slutting it up with you.
Rent some sappy movies, cry on your friends shoulder, get a therapist. Find some new hobbies and delete her phone number out of your address book. Do the things that people do when they have been dumped. Be pissy and cranky that you got your heart broken, but don't engage your ex unless you have something nice to say to her. Accept that she just didn't love you and with time and space, find someone new.
2006-12-14 09:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wat do u want out of it? Do u want to save her? Be her princess/prince in shining armour?If she is being a real female dog with others could u be y?It all falls on y she is doing it in the first place..could she be trying to experiment with others?Or is it her hormones getting the best of her..all u can do is openly ask her is she alright and if she is doing this to get back at u or maybe just because she wants to..depending on her answer u can move from there..just let her know u are concerned and that u r always there if she needs a friend..leave that door open and maybe she will open up 2 u and let u know y she has been acting that way..most of all try to remain impartial and avoid mentioning the past..reassure her ur just worried about her and hope she is ok..good luck~
2006-12-14 08:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Charmer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the best and the worst. If you really feel it in your heart that you love her, then examine your self and if you think she is worth it, then speak to her about it. I know it seems hard sometimes, but if you love her(and she loves you) then your happiness is at stake. If you try and get nowhere, then it wasnt meant for you. Ive been there before and I know how bad the feeling is when you make someone your everything and then end up with nothing.
At worst, my best advice is to take sometime for yourself. Get to know yourself and become your best friend. Sounds cheesy but it worked for me. I had to learn to be there for me when no one else wasnt. Just make sure that whatever you do, you do not compromise your worth. I wish the best for you!
2006-12-14 08:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
News flash, hon. People change and relationships end. How do you get over her? In time you will. This is kinda basic, and happens every single day. Did you think you were unique in this respect?
It's over, and eventually you'll move on. Start now, and it will be easier later.
2006-12-14 08:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her? Why did you two break up?? Maybe she is going through some kind of stress right now. However getting over her, i dont know how you do that, pretty much time is the healer of a broken heart. Its hard I know.
2006-12-14 08:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you not married anymore? A question you asked 3 months ago stated you are married to a man.
2006-12-14 08:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Right_Tonight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chat with me and i guarantee you'll get over her.
2006-12-15 02:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to get over someone is to get under someone
2006-12-14 08:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Allie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she isn't a feak any more. she wants men now get over it
2006-12-14 08:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋