2006-12-14 07:37:04 · 19 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That's a decision she should make. The only thing for you to do it's just listen and be there as a good friend to give your support.
2006-12-14 08:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not tell her to get an abortion. Unless you want her to do the worst thing that a mother can do, which is allow an abortionist to kill her unborn baby, then give her the links below. Even though you can't stop her from having an abortion in this time in our country when abortion is legal, you CAN give her true un-whitewashed facts about abortion so that she can at least make a truly informed decision.
I will pray that you do not tell her to get an abortion, that you will give her these links, and that she decides to let her baby live.
God bless.
2006-12-14 08:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not YOUR decision to make - it's hers. However, if you are truly her best friend then you should give her the pro's and con's of each decision. Having an abortion is not an easy decision. I had one 3 years ago and it has weighed on my mind since that time and I was 33 years old when I had it. Most girls are much younger than that and it's an emotionally horrific experience. Be a true friend and support your best friend in whatever decision she makes.
2006-12-14 07:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by JeanJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A friend of mine (honestly) got pregnant about 5 years ago and when she told her best friend of many years, she was told to get an abortion, they weren't friends anymore. instantly. You have to let her make up her own mind, but if you were a true friend and honestly concerned about her well being you'd try and talk her into other options, instead of telling her she should take the life of and innocent baby who was conceived in a compromising situation because her mommie was too horny to care.
2006-12-14 07:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Eiluj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't TELL her. But please do sit down with her, discuss things. Find out what she's feeling, thinking, planning. Give your honest opinions, kindly. Remind her that if she is not ready to be a parent, abortion is not the only option. Help her out by looking up a reliable local adoption agency, or a counselor, or consider asking her if she is comfortable talking to her parents. Be open to listening to her as well as talking to her.
2006-12-14 08:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Leave that up to her to decide. You should be there for her and support her but do not pressure her to get an abortion. This is a major decision in one's life and must be carefully thought out. This is her life and everyone has a choice. Give her that choice.
2006-12-14 07:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Valley Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should ever tell anyone what to do with their body. I would talk to your friend and see what she wants to do. If her choice is abortion then by all means support her through it. As a friend just go through the pros and cons of her having a baby.
Good luck!
2006-12-14 07:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Garrett's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. If you believe she should get an abortion then you should tell her that you believe she should get an abortion, but you shouldn't tell her to get one. That's her decision to make.
2006-12-14 07:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no.........she has to make the decision on her own for her reasons not because of someone else's influence. the best thing for you to do is just be there to hold her hand no matter what decision she makes and let her know that no matter what you will be her friend
2006-12-14 07:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, what type of friend tells someone to kid their own child? It's hers and the fathers decision stay out of it, and hopefully she doesnt go with murder
2006-12-14 07:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋