Why is it not ok to be bi?

Question

So if a guy sleeps with a guy they are gay, but he dates and has a sexual relationship with a woman, he is just hiding the gay inside? Seriously, woman turn me on, but I hate the commitment they want, sommeday I want kids and the married life but for now I just want to party it up and have some fun, guys just want to get off so its easier, so I don't consider myself gay, bi or straight I am just slutty (semi quoted from Margaret Cho). Why is the system so flawed?

Answer 1

I don't think you should stick a label on yourself that you're not comfortable with. It's OK to be bi, but if you don't feel that you're bi, then don't feel that you have to stick a lable to yourself that you're not comfortable with. How you define yourself is entirely up to you. People identify so many different ways. The ways we define ourselves don't always fit into gay, straight, or even bi. I know I don't fit into any of those categories myself. I identify as queer, I have friends that are pansexual. I know people that say they're straight with gay or bi tendencies, HetroFlexible, HomoFlexible, etc. The spectrum definately goes beyond gay, straight and bi.

Answer 2

I personally LOVE being bi..I guess the truth is I too am a bit of a slut and love to get off. I also like the to experience alot of people's minds and spirits. It's just cool with a guy, a girl or both at the same time...It's life..One way and no returns---Live it Large! BIG LOVE..kevin

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with being bi. It sounds like you know what you want. If it works for you then go for it.

Answer 4

Sounds perfectly normal to me...go with it.

Answer 5

It is okay to be bi. I would consider you bi...