my girlfriend might be pregnant!?!?!?!?!?

Question

Iv been reading 100's of these and I really cant come up with what to ask sooooo me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex for about 3 mins..... I kno I kno I dont need a speech it only takes one time --I KNOW I DIDENT GET OFF-- but theres still the chance and Im terrifide to tell you the truth im not going to leave her I love her to death but im only 16 im not going to run off like most of the punks that have this problem I done adult things so I have to take responsibility like an adult but I really dont know if she is pregnant she might be and she might not be 4 more days unitl her period and im really scared...because if she is I know ill have to get a job and such and shes 15 soon to be 16....and this is really stressing me out I could litteraly ram my head thru a wall and she is really high matiance and I kinda am too I have no clue how ill get a job to support both of our needs I say if she is she will move in with me..and im running out of space plz no smartass remarks plz help!

Answer 1

whoa there. you are getting WAY ahead of yourself! She probably didn't get pregnant -- since you did not ejaculate -- but as you know, you are playing with fire, and there is always the possibility she is.

But just wait and see how this plays out. Also, PLEASE use this as a lesson to wise up! Vow to yourself this will never happen to you again. Make an appointment at Planned Parenthood for her and make sure she gets on the pill, the patch, or depo-provera shots.

In the meantime, go to the drug store and buy condoms with nonoxynol 9 (spermicidal lubricant) and a box of Encare spermicidal inserts. She puts the inserts inside her 15 minutes before you have sex, and you use a condom BEFORE you get inside her. This will prevent unwanted babies.

Answer 2

All you can do is wait. Did you ejaculate or not? If you did then that sperm can stay inside of her for up to 72 hours. Do you know if she was ovulating? A woman can only get pregnant during ovualtion which occurs during the middle of her cycle. If she either just got off her period, or was just about to start when this occured, then the chances of her being pregnant are slim. Having a kid is such a huge responsibility for anyone young or old, so for your sake I hope she's not.

Answer 3

You sound pretty terrified and i would be too in your situtation but chances are that she isnt pregnant if you "didnt get off". Now take this as a lesson to learn, unprotected sex at age 15 or 16 isnt very smart. Try to get a job at your age and you'll find it pretty hard. There are better things for you too to be doing anyways if you really love her. Show her a good time, go out. If you love the girl respect her, and that doesnt mean you have to have sex with her.

Answer 4

there is a thing called per ejaculation and yes it can get a girl pregnant. Have her take a home test and then go from there. You need to learn to cut back on things if she is and get a job. Please please don't hide this if she is. there is the WIC program in most states. There are state run programs that don't try to tell you how to raise your child or interfere. Do some looking on the web about these programs in your area. There is always help you just have to look for it. Don't let anyone talk you into doing what they think is best. This is your life and your girlfriend's this is your choice together. Be there for each other and talk to each other.

Answer 5

ok sparky, calm down. for starters it is actually harder to get pregnant then you think. the way a woman's reproductive system works is pretty amazing. i'm not sure how much you know about baby-making, but a male's ejaculation carries millions upon millions of sperm and only one actually fertilizies the egg. the womans body actually fights sperm killing it off and that is why men produce so much hoping that, that sperm makes it to the egg. so with that said and refering to your comment about not "coming" in her then i would actually say that the chances of her being pregnant are slim. they are not non-exsistant but very slim. one thing that you need to keep in mind is that with her period being that close and if she is worried about it to chances are that she will be late on her period. this is usually due to stress and prolong the period from actually occuring. i have seen this last as long as a week and as short as a few days. so just relax and if she more then a week late get a test and take it but i honestly think that you'll be fine. now the part you don't want to hear. if it was my daughter that you were doing that to, getting a job would be the least of your concerns. depending on my mood you would either be facing satatory rape charges or certain death. you still in your room learning how to use your equipment instead of just shooting it off. and i promise that telling her dad that you are going to be there and raise that baby and that you love her would be the wrong thing to say cause he will say if you loved her you should have waited until you both were old enough to be responsible about it and then when he looks at you all he see is his daugthers life going down the tube because instead of studying for finals to graduate colege she's busy busing tables at ihop to buys uniforms for his grandbaby to go to grade school. so here is advice. if you're gonna "make love" then wrap it up. hope the answer helps and sorry for the preaching but i got a baby girl and i have swore that i will arrange a meeting between any boy and god himself if he violates my daughter before she is mentally mature enough to understand the issues involved with doing grown-up acts. anyway good luck and remember to be careful. 5 minutes of fun is not worth losing all the potential that you have in your life.

Answer 6

More than likely, she is not pregnant. It's a very slim chance that she is. Does she keep track of her periods? If she does, and has a 28 day cycle, count 14 days from the start of her last period. That will be the day she ovulates. example- started period Nov 10... Nov 24 would be the day she ovulated which means she could get pregnant Nov. 22-Nov. 26. If you didn't finish/get off, chances are she is not pregnant. From now on, wear a condom.

Answer 7

I remember being your age and freaking out! Man that brings back some memories!! Anyway, chances are she isn't pregnant. If she doesn't have her period on schedule, then I'd start freaking out! Until then, stay calm. You better think about this feeling you have deep in your stomach next time you and her get frisky. I got away with pulling out throughout high school. I was very lucky. Just stay calm bro and don't worry until she misses a period!

Answer 8

Good chance you are not. Consider adoption if she is! You can't get a job at 16 to support two high maintenance teens! Thank your parents for being so generous to you. Get a good education and a better job if you want to be high maintenance and have a high maintenance woman!

God help you if she is!

NEVER DO THAT AGAIN go buy a box of condoms

Answer 9

You and your girlfriend can go to your local Pregnancy Resource Center. They offer confidential and free testing as early as 7 days after intercourse. Here's a website to find your local one: www.pregnancycenters.org.
I really admire your willingness to take responsibility and be a man in the event that you and your girlfriend are having a baby. I hope that things work out for both of you!
God bless!

Answer 10

it incredibly is achieveable she is pregnant. the sole thank you to comprehend for particular is to take a attempt. no count if it incredibly is unfavourable and she or he nevertheless hasn't all started then wait some day and take yet another one. If that one comes up unfavourable, then she needs to pass to the physician to ascertain. sessions could be atypical each so often and there are othere factors that would reason you to omit a era, yet rule out being pregnant first.